Why is it always that when a man acts shitty, it becomes a woman’s job to fix it? And we get the added bonus of being called “too sensitive” or a nag when we do! In case you missed it, comedian Shane Gillis (though he’s not really funny enough to be called a comedian) recently made a “joke” about women being “whores” for wearing shorts to the gym. Plenty of women took the time to explain why that comment perpetuates rape culture, and men everywhere blamed all of us for not being able to “take a joke.” Insert eye roll here. For too damn long, it’s been though to be a woman’s job to “fix” men, but they seem hesitant to it and we only get shamed more for trying. We’re over it.

Getting some TLC [3:31]

A dream European vacation [7:09]

Men need to hold each other accountable [10:36]

Women are shamed just for existing [15:05]

The normalization and perpetuation of rape culture [18:27]

It’s not women’s job to fix men [20:02]

No more mansplaining [24:42]

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Many years ago, we had our first ayahuasca experience, and lived to tell the tale here on this podcast. Fast forward a few years, and now Danny has experienced a few more ayahuasca ceremonies. She’s now back from a 2 week long dieta (it’s not what you think it means) in Puerto Rico, and she’s a brand new woman. Every ceremony comes with it’s own insights and perspectives, and we thought you’d like to hear how it went.

A Puerto Rican Dieta [1:31]

The purpose of fasting [11:02]

A lesson in discipline [12:46]

Something different than ayahuasca [19:14]

Two weeks without speaking [21:57]

Clarity and peace [26:42]

Massive gratitude [34:48]

Discipline builds self-efficacy [40:07]

The hardest part of traveling [47:23]

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It’s been an eventful week. Hot off a big launch in her business, Jill jumped right into a brand new endeavor: getting appendicitis. In less than 24 hours, she went from closing cart to full abdominal surgery. Thankfully, everything worked out fine and Jill is doing her best to recover—which may or may not include lifting heavy weights—but this turn of events got us thinking… did this happen because The Big Guy Upstairs wanted Jill to slow down? Or maybe because she hasn’t been praying enough? Whatever the true reason, it’s clearly Jill’s fault, and not at all something normal that happens to plenty of people every year.

The wrong pain in the right spot [2:26]

We’re full of hot air [10:01]

Unhinged DM’s [12:18]

Knowing someone is there to take care of you [16:51]

How to decide when to get help [23:18]

Driving a paint truck in Europe [27:20]

A new surgery addict [32:22]

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