To find out about working together:

1. Find us on instagram ( / aston_simmonds OR / adam__simmonds )
2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details

“Why does every conversation turn into an argument… even when you’re trying to connect?”

In Episode 20, we talk about the communication mistakes that silently kill connection and the ones most couples do not even realise they are making.

The talking that turns into defending.
The ‘we need to talk’ moments that end in shutdown.
The feeling of being unheard, misunderstood, or walking on eggshells.

“It is not that you do not love each other. It is that you are communicating from protection, not connection.”

If you have ever thought:
• We talk all the time but nothing gets resolved
• I do not feel heard
• I shut down because it feels safer
• Every conversation feels heavy or tense

This episode is for you.

We break down:
• The 7 most common communication mistakes couples make
• Why good intentions still lead to disconnection
• How to communicate in a way that actually builds safety and closeness
• The simple framework that helped save our marriage

Save this for the next hard conversation.
Share it with your partner or someone who needs it.

Full episode: “The Communication Mistakes That Silently Kill Connection” is live now. Link in bio.

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Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/

Free Resources:

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Listen to all episodes on Audio:

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Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

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To find out about working together:

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2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details

“I didn’t get a relationship coach because things were ‘bad enough’…”

I got one because I finally realised doing it alone wasn’t working.

In Episode 19 of the Save My Marriage Podcast, we share the truth about:

Why asking for help was the hardest part
How choosing the wrong support can keep you stuck
What actually matters when finding a relationship coach
And why the real work starts when you take responsibility for your own growth

“It’s not about putting faith in a coach. It’s about trusting yourself enough to show up, get uncomfortable, and do the work.”

If you’ve ever thought:
“I should be able to figure this out on my own”
Or…
“I don’t want to be the only one trying anymore”

This episode is for you.

Save this for when pride gets in the way.
Share it with someone who’s ready to grow.

Full episode:
“How to Find the Right Relationship Coach (and Why I Needed One to Save My Marriage & Myself)”
Now live. Link in bio.

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Work With Us
Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/

Free Resources:

Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in

Listen to all episodes on Audio:

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

Watch all episodes on YouTube:

https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

Support the Show
If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

To find out about working together:

1. Find us on instagram ( / aston_simmonds OR / adam__simmonds )
2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details

“Can a relationship really last if only one of you is doing the work?”

In Episode 18 of the Save My Marriage Podcast, we speak honestly about one of the most painful questions couples carry.

The fear of growing alone.
The frustration of being the one doing the healing.
The quiet question of whether this is ever going to be enough.

“It wasn’t about forcing change or getting your partner to catch up.
It was about learning how to stop pushing and start embodying the work.”

If you have ever felt like you are carrying the emotional load of the relationship by yourself…
If you have wondered whether love can survive when only one person is leaning in…

You are not broken.
And this episode is for you.

Save this for the moments you feel unsure.

Share it with someone who is quietly holding it all together.

Full episode: “Can a Relationship Last If Only One of You Is Doing the Work?” is live now. Link in bio.

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Work With Us
Ready to rebuild love, trust, and intimacy in your marriage? Join us at one of our next retreats or online events here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/

Free Resources:

Download our free 5 Minute Coffee Check In: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/coffee-check-in

Listen to all episodes on Audio:

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=3821f82764534c68

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

Watch all episodes on YouTube:

https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

Support the Show
If this episode helped you, please take 30 seconds to leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It helps other couples find this support too: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860