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Weaponized Love

Understanding How Narcissists Think Is Key to Protect, Heal and Thrive

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Weaponized Love

By: Paula D'Arcy
Narrated by: Paula D’Arcy
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Toxic relationships with narcissists can leave lasting psychological and emotional effects, often trapping people in confusion, rumination, and self-doubt. This audiobook aims to bring clarity to those who have experienced such dynamics, particularly with individuals who present as kind, humble, or even empathic—while hiding a deeply manipulative and destructive personality beneath the surface.

The term “narcissist” is often used loosely to describe self-centered or difficult people, but true Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), as outlined in the DSM-5, is a far more serious and harmful psychological condition. This audiobook explores the lesser-known and more dangerous version of NPD: the covert narcissist.

Unlike overt narcissists who are outwardly arrogant and controlling, covert narcissists use subtlety, guilt, and charm to manipulate and control those around them. They wear a mask of decency and emotional intelligence while inflicting significant psychological harm behind closed doors.

This guide draws from the author’s personal experiences with covert narcissists and extensive research to help listeners identify patterns of narcissistic behavior. It breaks down the classic narcissistic abuse cycle—beginning with Love Bombing, followed by Devaluation, Discard, and finally the Hoovering phase, where they attempt to pull you back into the cycle.

You will also learn about tactics like the smear campaign, and gain practical insights on how to recognize covert narcissists, escape the toxic dynamic, and begin your healing journey.

Using a unique analogy of covert narcissists as invaders from “Planet Narcdom,” the audiobook simplifies complex psychological behavior into relatable and clear language. This book is for those who have:

•Been blindsided by the sudden disappearance or betrayal of a partner or friend

•Struggled with family relationships that feel toxic but are hard to explain

•Spent months or years asking, “Why did this happen?”

©2024 Paula D'Arcy (P)2025 Paula D'Arcy
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The author knows her stuff and describes Narcissistic Personally Disorders beautifully. Sadly this condition is untreatable and individualsin with this will never change their behaviour. Thankfully after understanding and accepting this we can stop entertaining them.

The best book you can read on Narcissistic Personally Disorders

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After following Paula on YouTube I’ve listened to her book as it’s recently gone on audible Jan 26
It will help you understand and move forward

Genuine knowledge from Paula

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