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We Do

Saying Yes to a Relationship of Depth, True Connection, and Enduring Love

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We Do

By: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
Narrated by: Matthew Boston
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About this listen

"If you and your prospective partner adopt the principles and skills I describe here, your relationship will be successful - not just for starters, but for the long run."

An indispensable guide for any couple ready to set the foundation for a loving and lasting union.

Committing fully to a loving partnership - a "we" - can be one of the most beautiful and fulfilling experiences you'll ever have. Yet as anyone in a long-term relationship will tell you, it can also be one of the most challenging. Almost half of all first marriages end in divorce, and chances go down from there. So how do you beat the odds?

"All successful long-term relationships are secure relationships," writes psychotherapist Stan Tatkin. "You and your partner take care of each other in a way that ensures you both feel safe, protected, accepted, and secure at all times."

In We Do, Tatkin provides a groundbreaking guide for couples. You'll figure out whether you and your partner are right for each other in the long term, and if so, give your relationship a strong foundation so you can enjoy a secure and lasting love.

©2018 Stan Tatkin (P)2019 Tantor Love, Dating & Attraction Marriage & Long-Term Partnerships Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships Dating Self Help

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Not just a regular relationship book, very science based and sane. It was a recommendation from my therapist

Amazing book 📕

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Deep insight and guide into how best to function as a couple—a two person psychological system. Will be listening too again

Awesome

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Dr. Tatkin clearly explains the key to success in serious relationships - prioritising the couple bond and behaving in ways which demonstrate secure functioning.
I will be listening to more of his books!

Excellent! Informative and clear.

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