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  • Change Your Perspective, Not Yourself: A Guide to Dating, Self-Worth and Becoming the Main Character of Your Life
  • By: Tinx
  • Narrated by: Tinx
  • Length: 5 hrs and 16 mins
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (15 ratings)
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Summary

A guide to dating, self-worth and becoming the main character of your life.

It’s time to get laser focused on what makes us feel happy and fulfilled. In The Shift, lifestyle creator, advice expert and podcast host Tinx collects all her revolutionary theories and hilarious personal anecdotes in one place, presenting you with a guide to simple mindset shifts that will completely change the way you approach decision making and relationships.

Through her own stories, from the good to the bad, Tinx will help you better understand how to step into your power and own self-worth. Some say you cannot love another before you learn to love yourself: Tinx will teach you how to do both at the same time. And she’ll do it while making you laugh out loud.

Making small but mighty shifts in thinking can be a tool for personal growth that fuels you instead of fatigues you. Tinx wants to take your hand and guide you to a new way of thinking about life, love, happiness and friendships – where dating evolves into era of self-discovery and not just a means to an end, sharing wisdom becomes a collective power, and chaos turns into a source of creativity. The point is to know yourself, discover what you fulfills you, and have fun along the way.

With her signature wit and honesty, Tinx will teach you:
> How to change your scarcity mindset
> How to understand and employ her famous Box Theory dating concept
> How to feed the things that fulfill you
> How living well is the best revenge
> How therapy can reframe struggles into strengths
> How to break up with dignity
> How knowing your worth makes you a better friend and partner

The lifestyle creator, advice expert and host of the It’s Me, Tinx podcast shares her hilarious and (sometimes brutally) honest wisdom on how to shift your approach to life, step into your confidence, and enjoy the journey.

©2023 Tinx (P)2023 Simon and Schuster

Critic reviews

"The new guru for the TikTok generation." (Grazia)

"The resident big sister of TikTok." (Vogue)

"Like an advice columnist but on Instagram." (New York Times)

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Very relatable

Helpful and relatable. Perfect for single women in their 30s. I enjoyed it immensely and felt it was very honest.

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I devoured it.

I liked this a lot and think having rules around dating is so important. TINX has some good ones.

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Great read if you’re looking for redirection…

Love tinx and this book delivers. great guide to reframe your mindset with men and put yourself first. well done tinx !

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I want Tinx to read my grocery list

Tinx is an amazing content creator that never fails to disappoint. This book felt like a good summary of all her mantras and life views. Her performance is amazing and had me giggling in the streets. Can’t wait for the next book 🦋💎💖

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Loved this

Definitely recommend . Found tinx on insta & seen she brought out a book . Made me see things differently and glass half full instead of empty

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Start this book immediately

If you have a beating heart, this book is for you. Do yourself a favour and listen to it immediately.

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The book the gyals need!

Thanks so much for this book Tinx!

Filled with such good advice and empathy for all of the girlies making their way through.

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Love

Like her podcast but obviously longer and great content with some new insights on her life. Like a hug in a book.

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This made me smile and think oh hell yeh!

Tinx has such a great outlook and way to make you not feel like you are falling behind! She is hilarious and insightful. She gives woman permission to revel in one’s woman-ness and navigate the highs and the lows.

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