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How To Love Better

The Path to Deeper Connection Through Growth, Kindness and Compassion

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How To Love Better

By: Yung Pueblo
Narrated by: Yung Pueblo
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About this listen

Brought to you by Penguin.

The #1 New York Times bestselling author of Lighter offers a blueprint for deepening your compassion, kindness and gratitude so you can truly grow in harmony with another person and build stronger connections in all your relationships.

'Personal transformation that is grounded in self-love and has greater inner peace as the goal will naturally teach you how to love better. Seeing yourself clearly opens the door to compassion for yourself and for other people.'

Love enters our lives in many forms: friends, family, intimate partners. But all of these relationships are deeply influenced by the love we have for ourselves. If we see our relationships as opportunities to be fully present in our healing and learn to love one another better, then, Yung Pueblo assures us, we can transform and meet one another with compassion instead of judgment.

In How to Love Better, Yung Pueblo examines all aspects of relationships, from the rose-coloured early days when you may be hesitant to show your full self, to the challenges that can arise without clear communication, to dealing with heartbreak and healing as you close a chapter of your life. The power of looking inward remains at the core of Yung Pueblo’s teachings. Ego and attachment can become barriers in a relationship, so the more self-aware you become, the more you can support both your partner and yourself.

Yung Pueblo’s insights on embracing change, building a foundation of honesty, and learning to listen selflessly will resonate regardless of where you are in your healing journey. And his unique combination of poetry, personal experience and thoughtful advice will help you grow and strengthen all of your relationships.

'YUNG PUEBLO IS THE REAL DEAL - A MODERN SAGE AND GUIDING LIGHT' - VEX KING

© Yung Pueblo 2025 (P) Penguin Audio 2025

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Critic reviews

This book is a beautiful offering from the heart, to the heart. I read through it in one quiet sitting, feeling its wisdom fill my spirit with hope that – after all the difficulties that relationships can bring – love (when blended with grace) can and will prevail.
I am a huge fan of Yung Pueblo. He has a unique ability to offer the perfect words to capture the feelings, insights and lessons we need to feel, see and hear. How to Love Better is no exception. In it, Yung Pueblo holds a mirror to the relationships we have and offers clear directions to the relationships we desire. I’m so glad this book exists!
Get ready to underline and highlight so many pages of this beautiful book. In the time we are living in today, we are all on a growth journey. I always say the hardest part is showing up. Yung Pueblo serves as an unpretentious and pertinent guide for how to participate compassionately in your own growth, lean into your healing era and set yourself up to be of service to others.
How to Love Better is destined to change your life. Yung Pueblo is determined to help us understand that true love starts within. A lot of us are looking outside of ourselves for our happily ever after. But this book reminds us that happiness is not the goal; peace is.
Each of us must understand our own needs and our wants to build a healthy, loving relationship. Yung Pueblo challenges us to grow separately and alongside our partners. How to Love Better, with its focus on our individual healing and shared contributions in relationships, along with Yung Pueblo’s vulnerability in sharing his own story, is the guide we need as we navigate life and love.
In a world that often pulls us outward, How to Love Better reminds us to journey within. I used to see solitude as isolating, but now I understand it as a powerful form of self-discovery. In this transformative book, Yung Pueblo guides readers to understand that deep, authentic connections start from cultivating a loving relationship with oneself. This book speaks to the courage of self-love as the foundation of all relationships.
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This is a great book. Just what I needed to read at this time of my life. Thank you for the beautiful and easy to digest (and apply) message.

Beautiful message

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This book really connected with me, very relatable with his stories and thought processes. Beautifully written/read, authentic and wonderful to listen to.

Wonderful

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This book nicely bridged the inner work I’ve done on myself into how to build a loving, caring and respectful dynamic with a partner. How to grow and change together and give each other space to develop in different paces. Also grateful for so much of the book giving attention on how to argue and normalise conflicts in a relationship. I’ve gained a lot of insights and are very grateful that this book was written. Thank you 🙏

Grateful for new insights

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I didn’t really enjoy listening to the book because the voice was plain and it felt like one of those boring lectures in school. sometimes the content was good but the plain voice just got me sleepy. I was hoping for more personal stories or advice from the author. But all the solutions are so easy to guess, whenever I thought he would tell me something useful, the next word is “meditation”. it felt like one of those ads u see in youtube that tries to sell you hard for some products, or salesman on the street tries hard to sell you something or lure u in to join some clubs, It seems that the only solution is meditation. The author should’ve changed the title to “how to sell meditation “

it felt like a commercial advertisement for meditation

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I didn't feel this book really got started. Bit slow and a little bit boring .

Very monotone

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