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How to Be Yourself

Quiet Your Inner Critic and Rise Above Social Anxiety

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How to Be Yourself

By: Ellen Hendriksen
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How to Be Yourself
is the best audiobook you'll ever listen to about how to conquer social anxiety.

“...a groundbreaking road map to finally being your true, authentic self.” —Susan Cain, New York Times and USA Today bestselling author of Quiet

Up to 40% of people consider themselves shy. You might say you’re introverted or awkward, or that you're fine around friends but just can't speak up in a meeting or at a party. Maybe you're usually confident but have recently moved or started a new job, only to feel isolated and unsure.

If you get nervous in social situations—meeting your partner's friends, public speaking, standing awkwardly in the elevator with your boss—you've probably been told, “Just be yourself!” But that's easier said than done—especially if you're prone to social anxiety.

Weaving together cutting-edge science, concrete tips, and the compelling stories of real people who have risen above their social anxiety, Dr. Ellen Hendriksen proposes a groundbreaking idea: you already have everything you need to succeed in any unfamiliar social situation. As someone who lives with social anxiety, Dr. Hendriksen has devoted her career to helping her clients overcome the same obstacles she has. With familiarity, humor, and authority, Dr. Hendriksen takes the listener through the roots of social anxiety and why it endures, how we can rewire our brains through our behavior, and—at long last—exactly how to quiet your Inner Critic, the pesky voice that whispers, "Everyone will judge you." Using her techniques to develop confidence, think through the buzz of anxiety, and feel comfortable in any situation, you can finally be your true, authentic self.

More praise for How to Be Yourself:

"How to Be Yourself will let you rest easy knowing that your anxiety is completely normal. As a clinical psychologist, Ellen has spent years helping patients conquer insecurities. With her help, you can go from asking yourself, 'Why can't I do this?' to knowing 'I can do it.'" — Mignon Fogarty, New York Times bestselling author of Grammar Girl's Quick and Dirty Tips for Better Writing

"Ellen Hendriksen is the real deal. This book cuts through the noise to help you overcome those big, dark anxieties and doubts that hold you back so you can live your best life." — Lewis Howes, New York Times bestselling author of The School of Greatness

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After suffering with what I didn’t understand to be social anxiety for over 10 years. This book has helped to guide me towards a place I never thought I would find again. It has hit on many nerves and opened up a whole new world that I had shut myself away from.

I am sharing my learnings from this with others it’s a gift that keeps on giving.

Can’t thank the author enough! I feel like I have a second chance to live my life and be happy.

Life changing listen!

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I don' t usually write reviews however this is a must read if you are suffering from social anxiety. It wont cure the problem how ever will make life much easier to cope with.

Simply Amazing

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Such a brilliant book. A refreshing approach to managing social anxiety! Just what I needed.

A fantastic book

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This book is amazing and very helpful towards those of us with social anxiety. Recommend it.

Amazing read

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This book is a must read. I have realized so much about my personality type and along the way I have learned tips and ideas for how to build relationships. But most importantly, Being you is the best way to achieve happiness. I feel confident starting up conversation in groups because after reading this book, I know it’s ok to be awkward and that people don’t always notice the things I thought they did. But rather they are also busy in themselves (waaaw). Additionally everyone at some time feels socially awkward and you may not notice it as they look cool and confident, but inside they have a lot going on and so the same is true hopefully for me, the internal meltdowns I have won’t always be so visible 🤩🤩.

My first audiobook and am so glad

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