Surviving Divorce

Read by the authors. A Failed Marriage Doesn’t Make You a Failure in God’s Eyes When Lysa TerKeurst experienced the painful and unwanted death of her marriage after nearly thirty years, she didn't know who to turn to or what would actually help her. She needed to get her bearings on what the...

The realization you are getting divorced is a devastating experience. Life as you know it may be changing forever.... There is hope. You will get through this, and you will survive. Surviving Divorce is your guide to finding that hope. It will help you on your journey toward not only surviving, but thriving after your divorce.

Divorce has devastating effects on children. Yet for divorcing parents who carefully consider and manage the intricacies associated with this difficult time, both parents, as seen from the child’s perspective, can remain as loving and supportive as they ever were. Parenting through Divorce concisely lays out the specific emotions and reactions parents need to anticipate from their children while going through separation, divorce, and its after-math.

Your divorce does not have to be a bad divorce. It does not have to break you, spiritually or financially or otherwise. It does not have to be the end of everything you knew. Your marriage can just come to a conclusion, with dignity for both sides, if you want it that way. Even if it's not your choice, it is your option. This book describes my journey and the steps I took to ensure that my life and the lives of my wife and our children were not ruined by the divorce. Kindness, respect, and generosity were the guard rails.

Josh and Lydia Green. A doctor and a stay-at-home mother. They met at a party, which led to a dinner, which led to a happy and comfortable life together. They married young and had children earlier than planned. They have their moments, of course - who doesn’t? With Josh working longer hours in the hospital and Lydia feeling increasingly isolated at home, the strain is starting to show. They don’t talk as much as they used to. Not every wife is as scared as Lydia. Not every husband is hiding as much as Josh. Not everything you think about them is true.

You don’t need to have the perfect relationship with your ex for the kids to be happy. Life can be better for you after separation or divorce. Some couples aren’t meant to stay together.

Parenting Through Divorce is a practical, compassionate guide to raising emotionally secure kids during and after separation. Grounded in trauma-informed principles and somatic healing, it’s designed for parents of children from toddlers to teens, whether your split is amicable or high-conflict.

The Journey from Abandonment to Healing is designed to help all victims of emotional breakups-whether they are suffering from a recent loss or a lingering wound from the past; whether they are caught up in patterns that sabotage their own relationships or they are in a relationship where they no longer feel loved. From the first stunning blow to starting over, this book provides a complete program for abandonment recovery.

After the Fall: A Man’s Guide to Surviving Divorce and Rising Again is not just another book about heartbreak—it’s a lifeline for men navigating the silent devastation of a broken marriage. If your world shattered the day she left, you’re not alone—and you’re not finished. This raw and faith-rooted guide tackles the real issues most men are too ashamed to say out loud: the rage, the numbness, the haunting “what-ifs,” and the spiritual ache of asking God why.

Healthy, thriving children have strong family bonds - but that doesn’t mean their parents need to stay married. A Parent's Guide to Divorce coaches both high-conflict and cooperating parents alike on how to best address children’s needs to become a stronger and closer family than before. From creating a parenting plan to navigating the post-divorce world, this child-centered reference teaches you what to say and do to guide your children through divorce.

Most of us spend a lot of time divorcing parts and pieces of ourselves in order to care for someone else. How often does divorcing you really work in the long run? A "divorceless" relationship is one where you don't have to divorce any part of you in order to be in a relationship with someone else. It is a place where everyone and everything you are in a relationship with can become greater as a result of the relationship.

In this audiobook, listeners will find a comprehensive and practical step-by-step guide to help them through the process of divorce. This covers everything from emotional healing and self-care to legal and financial considerations, providing listeners with the tools and resources they need to successfully navigate the challenges of divorce.

Healing from Divorce: Finding Your Strength and Moving Forward empowers you to process emotional wounds, cultivate meaningful relationships, and embrace a hopeful future. Explore the emotional stages of divorce, learn to unpack intrusive thoughts, and master the art of forgiveness and respect. Discover effective communication strategies, the power of self-care, and how to learn valuable lessons from the past.

Whether you're ready to start dating again, or just thinking about it, this book will help you. You'll learn the real reason your marriage failed...and how to make sure it never happens again. Plus, what women really want from a man! (Nine out of ten men are absolutely floored by this secret.) And plenty more!

This audio walks you through the process of healing the hurt, ending the cycle of conflict, and restoring the love, not as husband and wife, but as one human being to another. You will learn how to let go, communicate, forgive, and how to take the conflict out of resolving issues. You will learn how to heal your relationship and if necessary, how to part as friends. The author of this audio was featured on Oprah.

Every year, 900,000 women of faith go through a divorce. This book is full of the wisdom and encouragement that Suzanne received, as well as the lessons she learned while the Lord was exchanging his beauty for her ashes. There is life on the other side. A life full of hope, healing, and triumph.

Divorce is a lot like losing someone. It is the death of a marriage. It is a sheer and brutal act of abandonment. It is extremely personal. Even after the meanest separation or divorce that caught you off guard, you may achieve this level of self-acceptance and forgiveness. This doesn’t mean you deny what they did to you or run away from the pain. Instead, you allow yourself to experience it all—the guilt, shame, anger, and disappointment—and move through it. If that’s how you’re feeling right now, this book is for you.

There are plenty of normal, decent women out there. This book isn't about them. This book is intended for the men who worked steadily over the last 20-plus years, helped their wives raise the kids, attended all their plays and sporting events, mowed the lawn, took out the garbage, fixed the sink, were patient and understanding during that "time of the month", and fully expected to be married for the rest of their lives. Then out of nowhere, the women they'd loved, honored, and cherished for the last two-plus decades couldn't stand the sight of them....

There is no escaping from the fact that separation hurts, but the way you handle yourself post-split will be the key to your recovery. By taking care of yourself, developing your confidence, and enhancing your self-worth, you will bounce back more quickly. This is the way of the mindful divorce. Best-selling author and coach James Brien has helped hundreds of people through divorce, one of life’s greatest challenges.

The role divorce plays on emotional stability can be devastating for many men and women - anger, resentment, and a sense of loss often linger well beyond the life and death of the marriage. Since much of the stigma of the past has been lifted, many are discovering that it is easier to work through these negative emotions, turning this life-altering event into a positive one by creating a better, more fulfilling life after divorce.