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Who The Hell Are You?

Who The Hell Are You?

By: Tom Bainbridge
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Summary

It's Part Podcast. Part Therapy.


Who the hell are you? Have you ever asked yourself that question? Like properly?

My name is Tom Bainbridge and once upon a time I was completely lost. I had no idea who the hell I was. Sure I was a lot of different things: a gay boy, a guy working in radio, a drama queen. But I didn't feel like any of these defined me. I went through a massive identity crisis.

But then something magical happened... By discovering others, I discovered myself.


I set out to make a podcast to help discover myself and the weird thing was, after recording just 4 episodes, it worked! So much so, I stopped. For years.

Until now. Over the course of the next few episodes, I'm sharing the secret with you.


With help from

  • Comedian and Performer Reuben Kaye
  • Renowned Chef Khanh Ong
  • Drag Superstar Art Simone
  • and Introducing Artist BabyDilfX


It's part podcast and part therapy, without the need for a mental health care plan.


I'm going to help you figure out, who the hell are you?!

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  • Trailer

    Trailer
    Dec 31 2025

    Have you ever found yourself trying to figure out who the hell you are? Do you look at everyone else and think, “How do they know themselves so well?!"


    My name is Tom Bainbridge, and once upon a time, I went through a massive identity crisis. I had no idea who the hell I was. I mean, sure, I'm a gay boy, a guy working in radio, a massive bitch, but I didn't feel like any of these things defined me (except maybe the bitch part). So I tried to fix it by making a podcast where I talk to people who I think have their shit together. And the weird thing was, after talking to just four people, it worked! By discovering others, I discovered myself.


    With help from

    • Comedian and Performer Reuben Kaye
    • Renowned Chef Khanh Ong
    • Drag Superstar Art Simone
    • and Introducing Artist BabyDilfX


    Over the course of six episodes, I'm going to help you figure out your identity. It's part podcast, part therapy, without the need for a mental health care plan. Let me help you figure out, “Who the Hell Are You?!”

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    I'd love to hear from you

    If you'd like to get in contact hit me up below


    Instagram: @tombainbridge

    Website: www.tombainbridge.com.au


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    2 mins
  • Reuben Kaye: F**k Up to Find Yourself

    Reuben Kaye: F**k Up to Find Yourself
    Jan 31 2026
    "I think it's one of the most intimate podcasts I've done... and I've done a lot of podcasts!"


    Cabaret comedy sensation Reuben Kaye like you've never heard before. What makes Reuben tick? How did Reuben find his quick wit? And what rude joke made Reuben have to change Kindergartens?

    Reuben tells us how to fuck up to find ourselves and how to deal with people who stand in our way. A story of resilience, finding your power and discovering your voice.


    "How do you find yourself? By fucking up, by getting on stage and be like, nope, that's not right. Nope, that's not right. This isn't right. And again, it's a thing of like, I define myself by what I'm not first before, cause everyone else will tell you what the hell you are, before you have a chance to figure it out, it happened to us as queer people for sure. You get called a f****t before you know you are. So why bother trying to find out who you are? It'll come to you. And eventually you'll look in a mirror after years and years and go, oh, there you are. Oh, I built this myself without even thinking."


    You can find Reuben on his socials here

    ________________________


    I'd love to hear from you

    If you'd like to get in contact hit me up below


    Instagram: @tombainbridge

    Website: www.tombainbridge.com.au


    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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    34 mins
  • BabyDilfX: The Gloryhole of Freedom

    BabyDilfX: The Gloryhole of Freedom
    Feb 1 2026

    Artist and Porn Star BabyDilfX reveals how building a glory hole in their apartment led to them finding out more about their identity. So how the hell do you go from welcoming straight men into your apartment (to help them get off), to being featured in an internationally renowned art gallery? How do you find so much insight in such an anonymous sexual act? And what does any of this have to do with finding yourself?


    A highlight in the series, this truly enlightening and engrossing interview with Emil reveals so much about personal identity in both the queer and straight world.


    "I didn’t realise that the more you lean in and become more open to yourself and if you accept that the world actually embraces you for it."


    Please note that this episode contains descriptions of sex in a graphic form. If you're usually offended by that, it may not be for you. However I implore you to listen with intrigue and remember that art is supposed to challenge you sometimes. The insights Emil reveals are nothing short of extraordinary.


    You can find Emil on their socials here

    ________________________


    I'd love to hear from you

    If you'd like to get in contact hit me up below


    Instagram: @tombainbridge

    Website: www.tombainbridge.com.au


    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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    37 mins
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