EXPLICIT. Let’s talk about sex, baby! Co-hosts Erin Stein and Dr. Gillian Goddard welcome Dr. Jenn Kennedy, a board-certified sex therapist, for a frank and funny conversation about desire, intimacy, and what changes in midlife. We’ve got you covered at every age with this fabulous episode.
Jenn explains why sex can feel complicated in midlife from the exhaustion of raising kids and building a career to the changes of perimenopause and beyond as our bodies change. She talks about desire discrepancy between partners, what’s actually “normal,” and why widening the definition of sex can take the pressure off. Gillian shares why vaginal estrogen is worth knowing about at any age, and why lubricants alone often aren’t enough.
Then Jenn walks us through how masturbation and self-knowledge can help you understand your own pleasure. We also get practical with tools that can help, tips to start the conversation with your partner, how to bring up concerns with your doctor, and what to look for if you seek out a sex therapist.
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Find out more about Jenn Kennedy, PhD and LMFT, on her Instagram @drjennkennedy; on her website at drjennkennedy.com or pleasureproject.us and listen to her podcast here: pleasureproject.us/podcast
To find a local sex therapist search www.psychologytoday.com for licensed providers.
Some of the products Dr. Kennedy mentioned can be found at www.womanizer.com; www.heytabu.com; and www.estherperel.com.
For the prudish among us, Erin also recommends a book she published, Ready For It by Chusita Fashion Fever. (Yes, really.)
We take a moment to remind you that while this is a medical discussion, it is not providing a diagnosis or treatment or any medical advice. The only way to get a diagnosis, treatment or medical advice for your particular condition is through a discussion with your doctor.
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This episode was produced and edited by Erin Stein. Music: “All We Live For (instrumental)” by Wolfclub licensed through Audiio.com. Intro and outro edited, and video created, by Ian Mayer. The Savvy Patient logo by Amanda Spielman.