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The Other Woman And The Wife

The Other Woman And The Wife

By: Chelsea
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Welcome to The Other Woman and The Wife, where we navigate the complex terrain of affairs with radical honesty, deep compassion, and zero judgment.

I'm Chelsea, and I've walked this path myself—from the shadows of secrecy to the light of self-discovery. After my own affair led me to divorce and ultimately to the love of my life, I realized that the narratives we're fed about infidelity are incomplete, shame-laden, and often harmful to the very people who need support most.

This podcast isn't about right or wrong, good or bad. It's about the messy, beautiful, heartbreaking reality of human connection and what happens when we find ourselves loving outside the lines. Whether you're currently in an affair, navigating its aftermath, or trying to understand your own capacity for love and desire, this is your safe space to explore without apology.

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Episodes
  • #89 Meet Julie: The Fairy Godmother Who Creates Space for Floodgates
    Jan 26 2026

    This week on TOWTW Podcast, Chelsea introduces you to Julie—not as a team member or service provider, but as the kind of human who shows up in her pajamas at 4AM when you're collapsing. Julie is a clarity partner who creates the kind of space most people have never experienced, where your floodgates can finally open. She doesn't coach (Chelsea hates that word—it implies fixing). Instead, Julie witnesses, translates your nervous system's reactions into language you can understand, and helps you see what you're actually feeling underneath what you think you're feeling. Chelsea shares Julie's powerful piece "Last Hour of the Year"—a response to someone 16 months into an affair who crashed on New Year's Eve—demonstrating how Julie holds pain without judgment, reframes struggle without fixing it, and helps people see they're not regressing but standing at a threshold between surviving something and building towards something else.

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    HOW WE CAN HELP

    Apply for 1:1 Coaching: https://towtw.com/coaching

    OUR LINKS

    Website: https://towtw.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

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    22 mins
  • #88 When Love and Dying Live in the Same House
    Jan 12 2026

    This week on TOWTW Podcast, Chelsea returns to the studio for what might be the heaviest episode yet – and that's saying something. Inspired by a listener who reached out with an impossible truth, Chelsea reads a raw, unfiltered letter from "Liz," a woman having an affair while caring for her dying husband. This isn't fiction – it's a distillation of real conversations, real suffering, and the kind of impossible choices that society refuses to acknowledge exist. Chelsea explores the unbearable weight of being a caregiver to someone who's dying while seeking refuge with someone else, the crushing shame of betrayal alongside devotion, and why we're all more complex than the simple narratives we're supposed to fit into. If you're drowning in guilt over choices that don't make you a monster – just human – this is your safe space to breathe. Because sometimes survival looks nothing like what we thought it would, and that doesn't make us broken. It makes us whole.

    ASK US A QUESTION

    We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:

    Submit yours here: https://towtw.com/ask

    HOW WE CAN HELP

    Apply for 1:1 Coaching: https://towtw.com/coaching

    OUR LINKS

    Website: https://towtw.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife

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    32 mins
  • #87 The Power of Words: How Your Internal Language Creates Your Reality
    Dec 8 2025

    This week Chelsea goes solo to talk about something nobody's addressing—how the words you use inside your head are literally creating the reality you're living. She dives into the difference between "I can't leave" and "I'm choosing to stay," why getting loud doesn't mean having a voice, and how every criticism you have about someone else is actually revealing your deepest fears about yourself. From her makeshift recording setup in parking lots to raw truths about language that liberates versus language that traps, this episode challenges you to audit your internal dialogue for 24 hours and replace one limiting phrase that's been running your life. Because the woman who found her voice through infidelity isn't just surviving her story—she's rewriting it.

    ASK US A QUESTION

    We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast:

    Submit yours here: https://towtw.com/ask

    HOW WE CAN HELP

    Apply for 1:1 Coaching: https://towtw.com/coaching

    OUR LINKS

    Website: https://towtw.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife


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    32 mins
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