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The Balanced Recruiter

The Balanced Recruiter

By: Chastity
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Welcome to The Balanced Recruiter — a podcast for anyone trying to survive work and this thing we call life, without losing themselves.

Chastity, a former corporate recruiter and sales trainer, currently a proud puppy mom, and professional laundry dodger, shares short episodes on burnout, boundaries, stress, and the chaos of being an actual human with actual feelings.

If you’ve ever cried in your car, refreshed Indeed at 2am, or fantasized about running away to another country, this is your space...

Burnout is real. Balance is the goal. And we’re all somewhere in between.

2026 Chastity
Hygiene & Healthy Living Psychology Psychology & Mental Health
Episodes
  • S2 | Episode #61 - I Said No... Why Do I Feel Like the Bad Guy?
    Oct 26 2026

    Ever finally say NO to something... and then spend the next three hours feeling like a terrible person?

    Because apparently, setting a boundary also comes with an emotional hangover. 😂

    "Was I rude?"
    "Should I explain myself?"
    "Should I just do it anyway?"

    FRIENDS. WE ALREADY SAID NO. WHY ARE WE STILL NEGOTIATING?! 🤦🏻‍♀️

    In Episode 61, we're talking about the guilt that comes with disappointing people, the pressure to always be available, and why doing what's right for you doesn't always feel good.

    Because here's something worth remembering...

    Someone can be disappointed by your boundary without being mistreated by it.

    And sometimes choosing yourself is simply saying no... and having the courage to leave it there.

    🍁 This week's Runaway Destination: We're escaping somewhere cozy for crisp mountain air, charming inns, maple treats, and absolutely no pressure to do it all. Tune in to find out where!

    🤍 A little scheduling note: I'm taking some time off, so Episode 62 will drop Friday, November 6, instead of our usual Monday. And yes, the irony of taking a break after an episode about boundaries is not lost on me. 😂

    __________________

    🤍 Need a little help slowing down? My Burnout Reset Guide is here to help you pause, reflect, and make room to breathe. No overnight life overhaul. Just a place to begin.

    Link below:

    https://beacons.ai/thebalancedrecruiter

    Need support?💛 Dial 988 in the U.S.💛 Visit findahelpline.com worldwide💛 Or message me — you don’t have to carry this alone.

    New episodes drop every week — follow, comment, share, leave a review, or scream into your Pinterest board of all the Thanksgiving runaway vacation ideas.

    Find and Follow us on Instagram: @thebalancedrecruiter | Share your thoughts or what you'd like to hear with us by sending us a DM!

    Remember: Burnout is real. Balance is the goal. And I’m somewhere in between 💛

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    13 mins
  • S2 | Episode #60 - Why Do I Feel So... Guilty?
    Oct 19 2026

    I spent years wishing I had more time to myself. So tell me why, now that I finally have some... I feel guilty enjoying it?!

    I'll be sitting there, drinking my tea, minding my own business...

    And suddenly my brain goes, "Shouldn't we be doing something?"

    FRIENDS. CAN WE JUST BE HAPPY FOR FIVE MINUTES?! 😂

    In Episode 60, we're checking in on why peace can feel so uncomfortable when it's exactly what we've been working toward.

    The guilt of slowing down. The pressure to stay productive. And our ridiculous ability to turn free time into another to-do list.

    Because here's the thing...

    Feeling uncomfortable with peace doesn't mean you need to create another problem.

    🌿 Tune in to find out this week's Runaway Destination: where we're escaping for slow mornings, beautiful surroundings, and absolutely no vacation Olympics 😂

    ____________________

    🤍 Need a little help slowing down? My Burnout Reset Guide is here to help you pause, reflect, and make room to breathe. No overnight life overhaul. Just a place to begin.

    Link below:

    https://beacons.ai/thebalancedrecruiter

    Need support?💛 Dial 988 in the U.S.💛 Visit findahelpline.com worldwide💛 Or message me — you don’t have to carry this alone.

    New episodes drop every week — follow, comment, share, leave a review, or scream into that business plan you know you shouldn't even think about launching...

    Find and Follow us on Instagram: @thebalancedrecruiter | Share your thoughts or what you'd like to hear with us by sending us a DM!

    Remember: Burnout is real. Balance is the goal. And I’m somewhere in between 💛

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    16 mins
  • S2 | Episode #59 - I Thought It Was Me... Until I Left
    Oct 16 2026

    Ever leave a situation that was stressing you the hell out... only to realize you're still living by its rules?

    The constant urgency. The overexplaining. The guilt when you're not busy. The feeling that you should always be doing more.

    Friends... WHO ARE WE REPORTING TO?! 😂

    In this episode, we're talking about what happens after we leave an environment that wasn't working for us.

    Because sometimes the hardest part isn't walking away.

    It's unlearning the version of ourselves we became just to get through it.

    And here's the uncomfortable part...

    What if the pressure isn't coming from anyone else anymore?

    What if we're the ones still enforcing the rules? Ouch...

    So here's something to think about:

    What are you still carrying that you no longer need to?

    _______________________

    🌿 The Burnout Reset Guide — Founder's Edition is available online now if you need some space to figure out what you today actually needs.

    Link below:

    https://beacons.ai/thebalancedrecruiter

    Need support?💛 Dial 988 in the U.S.💛 Visit findahelpline.com worldwide💛 Or message me — you don’t have to carry this alone.

    New episodes drop every week — follow, comment, share, leave a review, or scream into your leftovers that you are unsure is still safe to eat... whatever feels good for you today!

    Find and Follow us on Instagram: @thebalancedrecruiter | Share your thoughts or what you'd like to hear with us by sending us a DM!

    Remember: Burnout is real. Balance is the goal. And I’m somewhere in between 💛

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    16 mins
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