S1E4: Who's Driving When You Get Activated?
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S1E4: Who's Driving When You Get Activated?
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In this episode we walk through the four patterns that show up when connection starts to feel unsafe: the one who strikes first to stay in control, the one who fixes and does and optimizes so she can't be left, the one who shrinks and apologizes to keep the peace, and the one who goes offline entirely because the feelings got too big. Fight, flight, fawn, freeze — each one brilliant, each one trying to protect you, each one stuck doing a job it took on before you had words for it.
Then we talk about the fifth presence in the room: the regulated, grounded version of you who tends to get drowned out. Not because she's weak, but because she's quiet. The work was never about evicting the other parts. It's about helping the calm one earn enough trust to take the wheel.
If you've ever caught yourself spiraling over something that turned out to be nothing, this one's for you.
Want to know which pattern runs the show when you get activated? Take the quiz! Email me (kyledallatorrecoaching@gmail.com) and I'll send it over to you!