An answer to the age-old question

In this episode:

• Bare minimum in Anami Land
• Frequency and duration
• The Taoist sexual prayer: on your knees, kids
• Sex date time minimums
• The weekly 3-hour sex date
• Is daily sex crazyyyyyy?
• How long before couples start to feel the impact of NOT having sex

Does sex leave you feeling energized, rejuvenated, transformed, ecstatic and like it changed your life?

If not, you’re doing it wrong.

It’s easy to have “tick-the-box” sex. Anyone can do that.

Couples can have sex a few times a week even. 5-15 minute encounters.

He gets off. She gets off—with a clitoral orgasm either through oral or a vibrator.

They high-five and call it a night.

In Anami Land, if it didn’t change your life, you aren’t doing it right.

In this episode:

• How to take your sex from superficial to life-changing
• What does it mean to emotionally surrender?
• What does it mean to sexually surrender?
• What is the difference between sex that changes your life and sex that puts you to sleep? What does it look like?
• Anami non-negotiables to reach these higher states of sex and love
• What happens in 90 minutes of oral sex
• What happens while holding an hour of eye contact during intercourse
• Fast-food, normie, NPC sex vs. sexual medicine Anami-style

Is there ever a “right” way to end a relationship?

100% there is.

And many wrong ways.

In this episode:

• The best way to leave your lover
• A story from when I did it badly
• A story from when I did it brilliantly
• What to do when you know it’s time

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