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Not As We Planned

Not As We Planned

By: Tash Gershfield & Carly Harris
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New episodes every Thursday, with exclusive bonus episodes every Monday on Patreon.

Welcome to Not As We Planned, the honest podcast about relationships, dating, marriage, divorce and motherhood, and all the things no one really talks about.

From becoming a mum and navigating divorce, to rebuilding life as a single mum and dating again in your 30s, we’re sharing the real, messy and unexpected sides of it all.

Life doesn’t always go to plan, and neither do relationships. This is a space for open conversations, shared experiences and saying the things most people avoid.

If you have a question or want to share your story, email us at notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.com


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Episodes
  • He Didn’t Forget My Birthday, He Ignored It

    He Didn’t Forget My Birthday, He Ignored It
    Jun 10 2026

    Tash opens up about her kids being around her boyfriend, the Snapchat message that wasn’t meant to be sent, when a break can help your relationship and the breadcrumbs that keep you there for too long


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    45 mins
  • He Left Me For a Man

    He Left Me For a Man
    Jun 3 2026

    Carly opens up about her grief, a story that will remind you that kids really do absorb the environment they are in and after 20 years together he left his wife for a man.

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    38 mins
  • Omg That’s NEW Information…I’m Terrified!!

    Omg That’s NEW Information…I’m Terrified!!
    May 27 2026

    You share the sluttiest things you’ve ever done, we give feedback on the first Hinge profile you’ve sent in, the separation after 20 years and the long-term emotional affair found out on Snapchat!


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    48 mins
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