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My Perfect Romance

My Perfect Romance

By: Valerie Courtney & Lisa
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  • 108 | Vengefully Matched with Audery Rouff
    Oct 7 2026

    Audrey Goldberg Ruoff joins My Perfect Romance to talk about her new book Vengefully Matched, a witchy enemies-to-lovers romance novel built on revenge, forced proximity, prank wars, and emotional growth. The conversation explores why vengeance can be honest, how messy characters can still be lovable, and why communication and consent matter just as much as chemistry. They also discuss the witchy Hallowcross world, memorable side characters, dream casting, and what Audrey hopes readers take away from a romance that starts in chaos and grows into trust.

    In this episode
    • Why revenge can be a compelling and honest force in romance
    • How to write messy, vengeful characters readers still root for
    • The enemies-to-lovers tension between Agatha and Priscilla
    • How pranks and close observation bring the characters together
    • Communication, consent, boundaries, and emotional growth
    • The inspiration behind Audrey’s Hallowcross world
    • Writing vulnerable scenes during a difficult time
    • Possible casting choices for a screen adaptation
    • Audrey’s upcoming young adult novel, Personal Space Issues
    Mentioned in the episode
    • Vengefully Matched by Audrey Goldberg Ruoff
    • Personal Space Issues, Audrey’s upcoming young adult novel
    • Practical Magic, Pushing Daisies, and The Addams Family
    Notable quotes

    “I want to support women’s rights and also women’s wrongs.”

    “You don’t have to settle for anything less than electric.”

    “We get to believe in love even when we mess up.”

    About the guest

    Audrey Goldberg Ruoff is the author of Vengefully Matched and teaches high school English. She discusses her books and updates on Instagram as Audrey Goldberg Ruoff.

    • Audrey's Website
    • Audrey's Instagram
    • Audrey's TikTok
    • Audrey's X
    Connect With Us

    If you have a romantic movie or a must-read book suggestion, a tricky “what would you do?” scenario for us, or you've published your own romance, we are also eager to hear from you! Go to our website, and send us a quick message or fill out the query form if you'd like to interview with us.

    • My Perfect Romance Website
    • MPR on Instagram
    • MPR on TikTok
    • MPR on YouTube

    Before you go... make sure to follow and rate or review our show. Your support and feedback means everything to us!

    Coming Up:
    • The Bride written by Maggie Gyllenhaal, starring Christian Bale and Jessie Buckley
    • Lights Out by Navessa Allen
    Chapters
    • (00:00:00) - Introduction and Welcome to Audrey Goldberg Ruach
    • (00:01:28) - First Impressions of Vengefully Matched
    • (00:03:02) - Vengeance as a Theme and Women's Anger
    • (00:05:10) - Enemies to Lovers: The Chainsaw Scene
    • (00:07:46) - Plotting Revenge and Character Growth
    • (00:10:01) - Priscilla's Wedding Abandonment and Real-Life Parallels
    • (00:13:32) - Three Words for Romantic Tension
    • (00:15:17) - Pranking as Foreplay and Real-Life Pranks
    • (00:19:41) - Dick Pics, Consent, and Funny Tangents
    • (00:22:34) - Communication, Consent, and Good Sex
    • (00:25:23) - Trust and Vulnerability After Chaotic Beginnings
    • (00:28:12) - Building the Hollowcross Universe and Magic System
    • (00:30:44) - Favorite Side Characters and Writing Challenges
    • (00:31:44) - Writing Vulnerable Scenes and Personal Struggles
    • (00:35:26) - Casting the Movie Version
    • (00:40:30) - Main Takeaway and Believing in Love
    • (00:41:21) - Relationship Longevity Game
    • (00:43:45) - Spice Level Rating and Deleted Scenes
    • (00:46:49) - Where to Find Audrey and Upcoming Projects
    • (00:49:02) - Closing Remarks and Show Info
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    51 mins
  • 99 | You, Me, & Tuscany Review: Starring Halle Bailey & Regé-Jean Page
    Aug 5 2026

    Discover the emotional rollercoaster of You, Me, and Tuscany, a film that explores impulsive decisions, deception, and the possibility of love in a picturesque Italian setting. Val, Courtney, and Lisa will help analyze whether this romantic comedy lives up to its scenic romance or falls into fantasy land.

    Resources & Links:
    • You, Me and Tuscany Trailor
    Final note:

    This film is pure scenery fluff, offering a visually stunning escape but scant on character growth or realistic relationships. Perfect for a light watch, but not for those craving depth or authenticity. Happy romancing, everyone!

    Let’s Chat!

    Have a love story to share or a book recommendation we can’t miss? Maybe you have a "What Would You Do?" dilemma for us to tackle? We’d also love to hear from published authors or fellow relationship podcasters interested in an interview!

    Head over to www.myperfectromance.com to connect.

    But while you're here… don’t forget to follow the show and leave a rating or review. It means the world to us!

    Legal Disclaimer:

    My Perfect Romance is hosted by friends sharing personal opinions and entertainment. We are not licensed relationship experts, counselors, or therapists. For professional advice, please consult a licensed relationship specialist or mental health professional.

    Coming Up:

    • Girls Like Girls starring Maya da Costa and Myra Molloy
    • Apparently, I'm a Bitch with Demi Blaze
    • One Golden Summer by Carly Fortune
    Chapters
    • (00:00:00) - THE PERPETUAL ROMANCE
    • (00:00:32) - Airplane Cooties
    • (00:00:58) - Yumi and Tuscany
    • (00:02:21) - Silence of the Lambs: Fun Facts
    • (00:04:58) - How To Be Discovered
    • (00:07:00) - The Cast Of 'Romance'
    • (00:08:11) - Anna On The Run Gets Caught
    • (00:12:45) - "Wear Someone's Clothes"
    • (00:13:25) - The Other Person In 'Love Actually'
    • (00:17:00) - Anna Stealing Her Lover's Money In Italy
    • (00:21:01) - How To Steal A Wedding Ring From An Empty House
    • (00:24:08) - In The Elevator With Michael
    • (00:27:20) - She Almost Kisses His Brother's fiance in
    • (00:29:21) - Anna Tells Mateo About Her Engagement
    • (00:32:56) - The Stages Of Grieving Anna
    • (00:35:41) - Anna in 'The Help'
    • (00:39:23) - What If It Was A Homeless Person vs. An Average Person
    • (00:43:00) - How Long Will The Hot Crazy Family Last?
    • (00:46:32) - I Hated The Gape Year
    • (00:50:12) - MY Perfect Romance: The Movie Review
    • (00:52:30) - Lee Balcom On How To Save Your Marriage
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    56 mins
  • 100 | Beyond Happily Ever After: The Science of Long-term Love with Lee Baucom
    Aug 12 2026
    In this podcast, we deep dived into the world of ‘Happily Ever After’—and what actually happens after the final page is turned. To help us separate the soulmate myths from relationship science, we are joined by, Lee Baucom, a man who spends his days helping couples navigate the ‘sequels’ that romance novels usually skip over. Lee shares actionable advice on maintaining connection, debunks common romance myths, and emphasizes the importance of daily interactions and emotional regulation in sustaining long-term love. Key Topics: The critical role of daily low-intensity, high-frequency positive interactions in relationshipsWhy grand gestures are temporary fixes rather than sustainable solutionsHow small 'bids' for connection, like sharing a bite or a glance, build trust and intimacyIdentifying red flags in romantic tropes such as enemies-to-lovers or forced proximityThe biological basis of passion and how to bridge the chemical gap with intentional actionsThe misconception of 'the one' and focusing on skill-building rather than fateDefensive behaviors, emotional dysregulation, and the importance of safety and ownership in conflictsTools and resources such as the Unpause Marriage app and Save the Marriage system for relationship repairHow emotional safety and good communication markers predict relationship resilienceAddressing the cultural and myth-based ideas about effortless love and the importance of skills over infatuation Resources & Links: Save the Marriage SystemSave the Marriage PodcastBook: How to Save Your Marriage in 3 Simple StepsBook: Recovering from an Affair Let’s Chat! Have a love story to share or a book recommendation we can’t miss? Maybe you have a "What Would You Do?" dilemma for us to tackle? We’d also love to hear from published authors or fellow relationship podcasters interested in an interview! Head over to www.myperfectromance.com to connect. But while you're here… don’t forget to follow the show and leave a rating or review. Letting us know what you think really means the world to us! Legal Disclaimer: My Perfect Romance is hosted by friends sharing personal opinions and entertainment. We are not licensed relationship experts, counselors, or therapists. For professional advice, please consult a licensed relationship specialist or mental health professional, like Lee Baucom. Coming Up: Girls Like Girls starring Maya da Costa and Myra MolloyApparently, I'm a Bitch with Demi BlazeOne Golden Summer by Carly Fortune Chapters (00:00:00) - THE PERPETUAL ROMANCE(00:00:31) - In the Elevator With Steven Lee(00:01:43) - Lee Balcomb on Her New Book(00:02:55) - The Importance of Relationships(00:05:29) - The Grand Gesture in Relationships(00:09:27) - The Bad Things Parents Do For Their Kids(00:10:42) - Red flags for a Sustainable Real World Marriage(00:11:52) - Forced Closeness and How It Affects People(00:12:54) - What Are the Key Problems in Relationships?(00:17:37) - The arc of a relationship(00:18:36) - How To Fall in Love(00:22:08) - Can a Person Change Their Attachment Style Just Because They Met The(00:27:07) - What Are the Signs That a Relationship Is Staying Together?(00:30:17) - How to emotionally regulate the other person(00:34:43) - How to Be More Real in the Relationship(00:36:15) - How to Win in a Relationship With Conflict(00:36:55) - Fighting Controlling Behavior in Relationships(00:39:30) - The One and How It Affects Relationships(00:43:38) - How to Have a Successful Marriage(00:46:54) - How To Get Out of a Relationship(00:48:14) - What Makes a Happy Couple?(00:49:36) - Pam and Jim's Pickleball(00:51:24) - Marriage and Pickleball(00:53:23) - Is Edward and Bella Avoidant Attachment?(00:57:05) - What Romance Writers Need to Know About Relationships(01:02:29) - How to Get Out of Pain(01:03:23) - Punishing the Relationship: How to Unpause Your Marriage
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    1 hr and 9 mins
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