In this episode, I speak to the Upper Limit Problem that so many of us face in our relationships and life at large. This phenomenon is when we have a ceiling of how much goodness, love, etc we can actually handle - and then we unconsciously block these blessings to bring our nervous systems down to a level that it feels more comfortable.

A simple way to think about it is self-sabotage.

The Upper Limit Problem is an invitation for us to expand our nervous system’s capacity to hold MORE goodness rather than becoming dysregulated and creating problems to bring the energy down.

It’s one of the most empowering things EVER when we can begin to become conscious of the natural pulsation of this universal law of ascent and descent, so that we can avoid dysfunctional ways of trying to regulate our energy.

The thing is, we can expand our capacity for the good, and we actually must do this if we are interested in growing and evolving past our set point. This is not just about having a better life, it’s directly tied into our soul’s evolution - and life is constantly trying to give us the opportunities to do this work.

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About me:My name is Leigh-Anne LoPinto, and I’m a psychologist and breathwork teacher specializing in relationships. I am devoted to creating the new paradigm of relationships.For the past 15 years, I’ve worked with people 1:1 and in groups to support healing and growth.

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https://www.love-evolved.us/start-here.html

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This is foundational work! I cover passive, aggressive, and assertive communication styles, and how we can move towards the healthy, mature middle way, weaving in some of my own journey along the way.

Healthy, open, and loving communication is the cornerstone of all of our relationships. This work cannot be overstated.

Please listen, and comment with how this lands. I’d love to hear.

Opening to Love: 2/22 Workshop

https://app.moonclerk.com/pay/1998hwqyqwsk

Start Here (Beginner’s Guide):https://www.love-evolved.us/start-here.html

Alchemy of the Heart:

https://www.love-evolved.us/alchemy-of-the-heart-course.html

The Visionaries Community:

https://www.love-evolved.us/

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About me:My name is Leigh-Anne LoPinto, and I’m a psychologist and breathwork teacher specializing in relationships. I am devoted to creating the new paradigm of relationships.For the past 15 years, I’ve worked with people 1:1 and in groups to support healing and growth.

Visit my website here to connect and go deeper:

https://www.love-evolved.us/

Sexuality has been divorced from love, and we need to bring these two things back together in order to restore harmony to the planet.

They have been severed for a reason, and it is not in service to the greater good of humanity.

This is way more than just something that would be nice to have - it represents a huge key in the healing and evolution of human relationships, and therefore, humanity at large.

This is a message that is so close to my heart, and was emotional for me to record!

In this episode, I share how sexuality became distorted when it was separated from love, which led to the creation of two polarized camps:

* Sexuality is wrong/bad/shameful and needs to be suppressed, or

* Sexuality should be indulged in an anything-goes culture.

I speak about an integrated third way that represents a major path forward for relationships and human evolution - when we remember how sacred this exchange is and how it can be one of the deepest and most profound expressions of love, as embodied devotion.

What are your thoughts on this topic - do you feel the difference when love + sex are present? And does it make sense how critical this reunification really is to heal our relationships, and the world at large? Let me know in the comments below.

Resources and Links Mentioned:

The New Era:

https://www.love-evolved.us/the-new-era.html

Healing the Relationship Between Men + Women:

https://www.love-evolved.us/healing-the-relationship-between-men-and-women.html

Towards Sexual Sovereignty

https://leighannelopinto.substack.com/p/towards-sexual-sovereignty-the-alchemical

Start Here

https://www.love-evolved.us/start-here.html

The War on Love, Sex + Relationships

https://leighannelopinto.substack.com/p/the-war-on-love-sex-relationships

Sexuality Generates the Frequency of the Planet

https://the-visionaries-le.mn.co/posts/teaching-library-sexuality-generates-the-frequency-of-the-planet

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About me:My name is Leigh-Anne LoPinto, and I’m a psychologist and breathwork teacher specializing in relationships. I am devoted to creating the new paradigm of relationships.For the past 15 years, I’ve worked with people 1:1 and in groups to support healing and growth.

Visit my website here to connect and go deeper:

https://www.love-evolved.us/