By now you have heard the story. Savannah James opened up about her best friend and not paying for things like first class flights, trips, and experiences, simply because she assumed that being married to LeBron James meant the bill was covered. And the internet had a lot to say about it. In this episode we are having the real conversation.

We talk about what happens to friendships when money becomes unequal, why some people feel entitled to the blessings of those they are close to, and where the line is between genuine support and quiet exploitation. Because having a wealthy friend is not a subscription service, and the assumption that it is says everything about how we value people versus what they can do for us.

Friendship is not a come up. And loyalty is not measured by who picks up the tab.

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You were not born without confidence, somebody took it. A parent who criticized instead of celebrated. A man who made you feel small. A world that told you that you were too much and not enough at the same time.

In this episode we are naming the people and the moments that dimmed your light before you even knew it was on. Because nobody can steal what God placed inside of you permanently. They can bury it. But they cannot take it.

It is time to take your shine back sis.

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In this episode, we are talking about Black motherhood and confidence, the way it builds you up and breaks you down at the same time. We get into how so many Black mothers were raised to sacrifice without question, give without limits, and show up for everyone except themselves. And what that silence costs us when the children grow up and we are left standing in a house that is finally quiet, not knowing who we are anymore.

We also talk about the mothers who are doing the work. The ones choosing themselves without guilt. The ones teaching their daughters confidence by finally modeling it for themselves.

You raised them well sis.

#blackmoms

#doingthehardwork

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