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After decades in uniform, what does it really mean to look back on a lifetime of service? In this episode of Four Titles, One Truth, we step away from the medals and milestones—and dive into the memories, the struggles, and the moments that defined our military lives.

Tommie and Lance reflect on what service has taken, what it’s given, and how it shaped the men, husbands, and fathers they became. From the first formation to the final retirement ceremony, this episode honors the full arc of sacrifice, growth, and pride.

IN THIS EPISODE:

•Our earliest memories of enlistment and how they shaped us

•What the military gave us beyond paychecks and promotions

•Honest thoughts on sacrifices — family, time, and identity

•How we knew when it was time to retire

•What we’re most proud of after a lifetime of service

•The legacy we hope we left behind

If you’ve ever worn the uniform, loved someone who did, or wondered what makes military service so defining, you won’t want to miss this one.

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Every service member has one.

That one assignment. That one place.

Where everything shifted — your mindset, your motivation, maybe even your whole life.

In this episode, we each share the duty station that changed everything. Not because it was easy. But because it forced growth — as leaders, as people, and as Black men in uniform.

We unpack:

•The unexpected ways a location can shape your leadership

•The moments that tested our patience and revealed our potential

•What we learned about resilience, identity, and purpose

•How one assignment can still influence who we are years later

•Why we think everyone has that “one place” — even if it didn’t look special on paper

This is about more than just PCS orders. This is about transformation.

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👇 What was your turning point assignment? Tell us in the comments.

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Black Leadership Erased and Under Pressure: Could We Still Serve in This America?

In this powerful Season 2 conversation, Tommie and Lance ask a bold question: “If we had to serve today, could we do it in this America — as Black men, as leaders, and as veterans?”

This episode goes deep into:

•The weight and responsibility of leading while Black

•How the social and political climate has shifted for Black service members

•Moments from our military careers that shaped how we lead today

•Whether today’s environment would support—or reject—the way we served

•How brotherhood, mentorship, and lived experience inform our leadership now

•The truth about the emotional load Black men carry when leading in high-expectation spaces

•How we protect our mental health while showing up for family, community, and the next generation

This is one of our most honest conversations — challenging, vulnerable, reflective, and real.

Let’s keep the conversation going.