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In this episode, we dive into our personal experiences with dating red flags, warning signs, and dealbreakers. We share a story about a date who held onto anger over minor inconveniences, and created an unsafe, tense environment. We discuss how ambiguity—like dating profile statuses saying "still figuring it out," mixed signals, or overthinking future scenarios—signals a lack of commitment and passive energy. We share instances of subtle red flags, including homophobic remarks about playing certain instruments and condescending behavior, such as a partner secretly letting the other win at table tennis to "let her experience success. Finally, we explore how internal overthinking and poor communication can strain relationships.

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In this episode, we break down our raw reactions to the wild world of dating app profiles, prompts, and messaging habits. We review our common annoyances, like guys claiming they "hate small talk" or offering "paid subscriptions" for cuddle. We share real-world awkward encounters, including being blocked over a one-word reply and dealing with pushy demands for video calls. From analyzing the cringiest photo trends (toilet selfies, gym shots, and motorcycle pics) to discussing the frustration of low-effort conversations and vague relationship goals, we share a candid, humorous look at the fatigue and realities of modern online dating.

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In this episode, we dive deep into the chaotic world of Amsterdam dating, where miscommunications take center stage. From navigating tricky accents and defensive dates to dodging "hungry eyes" and decoding subtle non-verbal cues, the hosts break down their recent dating misadventures. Plus, one of us shares a jaw-dropping story about the time she was targeted by an elaborate online dating scammer.