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Come Curious

Come Curious

By: Florence Bark & Reed | QCODE
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Home of the world's most OPEN, HONEST & EXPLICIT conversations! You’ll be hearing all of our juicy sex stories, getting professional sex advice from therapists to dominatrix’s and spilling horny tea with your favorite public figures. Curious f**kers… welcome to COME CURIOUS the podcast. Hosted by award winning sex & relationship content creators, sex educators & p0rn directors: Florence Bark and Reed Amber. Please rate and review if you’ve learnt something from us! C U NEXT THURSDAY CURIOUS F**KERS Support the podcast and help us keep independent by donating via patreon.com/comecuriousCopyright Come Curious Hygiene & Healthy Living Social Sciences
Episodes
  • Is this cheating? Dating Apps, Exes, Emotional Affairs & Secret Texts

    Is this cheating? Dating Apps, Exes, Emotional Affairs & Secret Texts
    Jun 25 2026
    Is subscribing to someone's OnlyFans cheating? What about texting an ex, keeping a dating app "just to look", or fantasising about someone else during sex? In this special watershed episode, we're diving into the murky grey areas of modern relationships with a boundary-pushing cheating quiz that sparks some surprisingly revealing conversations. Together, we unpack the behaviours that sit between loyalty and betrayal, exploring emotional affairs, secret crushes, dating apps, hidden messages, workplace flirtations, exes, social media boundaries, and what "cheating" actually means in monogamous and non-monogamous relationships. The truth? There isn't one universal definition. What feels harmless to one person might feel devastating to another. This episode is designed to help you better understand your own boundaries, communicate your expectations, and start the conversations many couples avoid until it's too late. ⚠️ This is a Watershed episode. Free listeners get the first half of the conversation, but if you want the full debate, all our answers, and the deeper discussions around ENM, trust, honesty and relationship agreements, you'll need to join us on Patreon. Whether you're happily monogamous, exploring ethical non-monogamy, or simply wondering where your own line is, this episode will leave you with plenty to think about. Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Learn about The Love Tank's new Dark Room Etiquette guide to help navigate dark rooms with safety and reassurance here Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    42 mins
  • Babies, Bodies & Banging Sex - new motherhood, polyamory & intimacy after birth

    Babies, Bodies & Banging Sex - new motherhood, polyamory & intimacy after birth
    Jun 18 2026
    We're back! After a whirlwind few months, Florence and Reed reunite to share some huge life update and trust us, a lot has happened. Florence opens up about her traumatic birth experience, from preeclampsia and induction to the realities of labour, recovery and becoming a mum. Meanwhile, Reed spills the tea on ending a dishonest situationship, finding a healthy new polyamorous relationship, and what dating has taught her about attachment, communication and vulnerability. The pair also dive into some of the biggest stories affecting sexual health right now, including NHS policy changes impacting trans healthcare, breakthroughs in endometriosis and PCOS research, and why menstrual products are finally being tested with real blood. Plus, they answer your questions on: Sex and intimacy after having a baby Maintaining connection during major life changes Dating, honesty and ethical communication Talking about penis size before sex Women's health research and medical advocacy Raw, funny, emotional and completely unfiltered - this is Come Curious catching up on everything you've missed. Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on ⁠Patreon ⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@comecurious⁠ and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence ⁠@florencebark⁠ Follow Reed ⁠@reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • What makes a great Cis, Straight Dominant Man - Authority, Kink Theory and Ethical Domination

    What makes a great Cis, Straight Dominant Man - Authority, Kink Theory and Ethical Domination
    Jun 11 2026
    This week on Come Curious, Reed sits down with kink theorist, power exchange mentor and educator Tripp Terrier to unpack one of the most misunderstood roles in BDSM: the dominant. Together they explore why true dominance isn't about control, arrogance or entitlement but instead, it's about presence, responsibility and service. Tripp shares his unique perspective on power exchange, explaining how authority is earned through knowledge, patience and skill rather than demanded through status or ego. They discuss the importance of integrating every part of yourself including the feminine and more uncomfortable aspects of your personality, and why self-awareness is one of the most powerful tools a dominant can develop. Inside the episode: - Why dominance is a giving role, not a taking one- The difference between confidence and entitlement- How power exchange can become deeply transformative- Why consent is more complex than a simple "yes" or "no"- The role of humility in healthy masculinity and leadership- Supporting partners through subdrop and emotional vulnerability Tripp also shares his essential reading list for anyone curious about kink, including The Topping Book and The Bottoming Book by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton, alongside The Heart of Dominance and The Dominance Playbook by Anton Fulmen. Whether you're dominant, submissive, curious or simply interested in healthier models of masculinity, this conversation offers a fascinating look into power, connection and personal responsibility. Follow Tripp online @tripp.terrier Come watch the full episode, AD FREE over on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious And tune in on all major streaming platforms - Come Curious. Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious Florence @florencebark Reed @reedamberx Our podcast is released every Thursday. Listen to the full episode wherever you get your podcasts. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4nQnVqQcEn4ptshlKjtdqo Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/f-ks-given-by-comecurious/id1444176549 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr
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