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To Throw Away Unopened

By: Viv Albertine
Narrated by: Jasmine Blackborow
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'Fierce, direct, unashamed. She masks nothing ... Scythes through the myths, the distortions, the adornments and finds the rich, distinctive stories underneath.' The Sunday Times

'A chronicle of outsiderness ... Searingly honest ... A painstaking and painful dissection of familial fallout .' The Observer

What was I fighting for? Even now I'm not sure. Something so old and so deep, it has no words, no shape, no logic.

Every memoir is a battle between reality and invention - but in her follow up to Clothes, Music, Boys, Viv Albertine has reinvented the genre with her unflinching honesty.

To Throw Away Unopened is a fearless dissection of one woman's obsession with the truth - the truth about family, power, and her identity as a rebel and outsider. It is a gaping wound of a book, both an exercise in blood-letting and psychological archaeology, excavating what lies beneath: the fear, the loneliness, the anger. It is a brutal expose of human dysfunctionality, the impossibility of true intimacy, and the damage wrought upon us by secrets and revelations, siblings and parents.

Yet it is also a testament to how we can rebuild ourselves and come to face the world again. It is a portrait of the love stories that constitute a life, often bringing as much pain as joy. With the inimitable blend of humour, vulnerability, and intelligence that makes Viv Albertine one of our finest authors working today, To Throw Away Unopened smashes through layers of propriety and leads us into a new place of savage self-discovery.

©2018 Viv Albertine (P)2018 Faber Audio
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Critic reviews

"Fierce, direct, unashamed. She masks nothing... Scythes through the myths, the distortions, the adornments and finds the rich, distinctive stories underneath." (The Sunday Times)

"A chronicle of outsiderness... Searingly honest.... A painstaking and painful dissection of familial fallout." (The Observer)

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Most women of a certain age will relate to this searingly honest book. Which covers a lot of difficult topics with humour.

I love books that make you realise you're not the only one with a less than perfect life and this does that in spades and left me feeling up lifted.

Brilliant book

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Loved it, such an honest and funny tale of Viv Albertine's life. Great narration. Would recommend

Brilliant

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Keep going if you, like me, found this book full on, grim and heavy. I think it's well worth the pain and getting to the end

Tough Going But So Worth It

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Just utterly wonderful.
I didn't want it it end.
Thank you, Viv, please write more.

Beautiful work by Jasmine, the narrator.

Perfection

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a well detailed. well written, true and real experience. some dark moments and realisations we can all learn from.

well written and we'll narrated

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this was a difficult and painful listen. only go there if you like the dark side.

very depressing

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"Viv Albertine should be anointed patron saint of the domestically dispossessed."

Viv once more entertains, enlightens and makes all the mistakes and cringe worthy life experiences we go through as women a part of a life well lived. Sibling rivalry, terrible parental relationships and Viv's own self awareness and thoughts on life are astute and more often than not heartbreakingly hilarious . I will miss her in my life, in my head and will listen again and again to this book. Really hope another appears!

A read again and again book!

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An unflinchingly honest and feminist memoir of family secrets and the death of Albertine’s mother. It’s told in a beguilingly non-chronological, apparently stream of conscious style. What she uncovers about her own parents as her 90-odd-year-old mother is dying unravels slowly and unsettlingly. It’s also peppered with wry take-no-shit observations about womanhood.

Unflinchingly honest

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Jasmine really got inside Viv's head abd really did her justice.

What a kick ass woman. As the poem sort of goes They mess you up your Mum Dad. I recommend this woman who is feeling a little oppressed for whatever reason. However it does tell the story of Viv losing her mother Kathleen (also Kick-ass) so proceed with caution if this is triggering area. My favourite quote used in the book is

I am never proud to participate in violence, yet I know that each of us must care enough for ourselves, that we can be ready and able to come to our own defence when and wherever needed. Maya Angelou, Letter to My Daughter, 2008

Love Jasmine Blackborrow's narration

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Raw, honest and brutal. Made me wince and laugh in equal measure. Bring it on Viv, you are my heroine. Listen to this unforgettable book (try to ignore the narrator -she’s a bit annoying in places ) and give thanks that Viv survived to write it 💋.

Brilliant

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