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The Old Gays have taken TikTok by storm with their viral videos, by turns outrageous and hilarious, fashionable and fierce. But as four gay men, aged from 67 to 80, Mick, Jessay, Robert, and Bill have lived through decades of momentous change and they’ve got stories that take more than three minutes to tell.

They grew up in the closet, experienced Stonewall, lived large during the gay sexual revolution, lost friends during the AIDS crisis, dealt with their own HIV+ diagnoses, and saw gay marriage became legal. Between them, they’ve been through it all – divorce, depression, bankruptcy, near-death experiences. And then there’s the dinner parties, the nudism, the professional bodybuilding, the orgies and the matter of church.

These are the tales – sometimes scandalous, sometimes profound, sometimes heart-breaking – that only an older gay man can tell. Their Guide to the Good Life is a celebration of lives lived to the fullest, and the art of getting old without getting bored. Whether it’s ageing, coming out, losing everything, starting over, finding happiness or just injecting a little more fun into proceedings, it’s good to know someone’s been there before, and they’re more than happy to give their best, bawdiest, most hard-won advice.

©2023 Old Gays LLC (P)2023 HarperCollins Publishers Limited
Aging & Longevity Biographies & Memoirs Gender Studies Personal Development Personal Success Social Sciences Happiness Funny Witty Marriage

Critic reviews

‘Upbeat [and] witty…though irreverent humor is the Old Gays’ bread and butter, they also reflect on faith, their struggles with homophobia, and surviving the AIDS crisis. The authors inspire fearlessness with their own exuberant attitudes. This risqué rule book celebrates making the most of life at any age.’ Publishers Weekly

‘I’ve fallen in love with this fabulous foursome … They are a phenomenon!’ Drew Barrymore

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An amazing book, I learnt more about LGBTQIA+ History which is always amazing. How they love to have fun and their stories and childhood and how they got to current day before social media. I feel like I related to them on different topics and it's nice to know you're not alone. It was just joyous to listen to them read about their lives and how they have reflected back, what they would do differently. It lovely to hear our gay elders speak as unfortunately we don't have many gay elders due to the AIDS epidemic and they are truly inspirational.

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Since discovering the old gays during Covid, I’ve loved them. Their stories about their lives and no holds barred descriptions of it were fabulous. Their collective ability to paint a picture while telling their story is amazing. A good listen and an even better lesson on acceptance.

Just Fabulous!!!

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