The New Rules

The Ultimate Guide to Being Her

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The New Rules

By: Margarita Nazarenko

Narrated by: Margarita Nazarenko

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Inspiring, simple and practical advice from TikTok sensation, hit podcaster and YouTuber Margarita Nazarenko. With Margarita's trademark wit and directness, this book is like your portable best friend.

We all want to live the best life we can, but how do we sort through all the confusing messages about how to do that?

Margarita Nazarenko tells it like it is when it comes to women and relationships - and women's relationships with themselves. A qualified life coach, YouTuber and TikTok sensation, Margarita advises women not only about how to navigate relationships with men, but how to create wonderful lives with or without a relationship. Her message is straightforward: don't expect to have a great life if you're not creating it for yourself first.

The New Rules collects the wisdom Margarita has shared with her followers all over the world as well as new insights - and a bit about Margarita herself - in her unique and inimitable style. Margarita is agony aunt, big sister and best friend rolled into one, and this book is a portable best friend that women can carry with them throughout the day - and throughout life.

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I’ve listened to Margarita’s podcast religiously since day one. Thankfully, this is just like a wonderful, extended version — witty and informative, read by Margarita herself. The rules give you actionable advice to improve your life and are a great mix of different concepts from an anxious attachment style to feminine energy.

The reading style in the first chapter is a teeny bit wooden as she finds her voice. Stick with it, the content makes it worth it and throughout the rest of the book she really gets into her flow. Her voice is so calm and it complements the rules she’s reading and makes for enjoyable listening.

This is a book I know I’ll be returning to as and when needed which makes it a great value of money.