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The Covert Passive-Aggressive Narcissist

Recognizing the Traits and Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse (The Narcissism Series, Book 1)

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The Covert Passive-Aggressive Narcissist

By: Debbie Mirza
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The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist: Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse is the most comprehensive and helpful audiobook on the topic of covert narcissism. This type of narcissism is one of the most damaging forms because the abuse is so hidden and so insidious. You can be in a relationship that can last for decades and not realize you are being psychologically and emotionally controlled, manipulated, and abused.

These people are well-liked; they are often the pillars of the community. Parents, spouses, bosses, and friends who are covert narcissists come across as the nicest people. They can be spiritual leaders, they are moms who bring over casseroles to needy people, they are the bosses who everyone loves and feels so lucky to work for.

These relationships are incredibly confusing and damaging. They leave you questioning your own sanity and reality. Even though they are treating you terribly, you wonder if you are the problem, if you are the one to blame. You are filled with constant self-doubt when it comes to these people in your life. When you are around them, you feel confused and muddled inside. You have a hard time seeing clearly.

These relationships can bring you to a state of deep depression and complete depletion of energy. You may wonder if you will ever see clearly and heal from these destructive and debilitating relationships.

This audiobook will give you hope that you can heal and feel alive again, or maybe for the first time. You will learn what the traits of a covert narcissist are, as well as how they control and manipulate. Your eyes will open, and your experience will be validated. You will also learn ways to heal and actually enjoy life again.

Debbie Mirza uses decades of her own experience with covert narcissists as well as her years of practice as a life coach who specializes in helping people recover and heal from these types of relationships.

©2017 Debra Mirza (P)2018 Debra Mirza
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I couldn’t believe how much I could relate to this book. Found it really refreshing and comforting.
Such an eye opener. Thank you Debbie!

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Having had many relationships over the years with covert passive aggressive narcissists (including a parent, a partner, colleagues and a manager), this was a great book to really help increase my understanding of these evil people and develol more strategies to move through the damage and heal.

excellent and helpful

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loved this. couldn't stop reading. it's a must read for anyone who's had a run in with a covert.

a must read

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So amazingly helpful. When you've been through this or are still going through it, it's so awful and confusing, so hard to put into words. Debbie Mirza does that perfectly, so other's who've not experienced it may understand and can help you heal.

Essential resource for victims

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This book is the first I have read of its kind. However it was essential and recommended by a Facebook site called "confusion to clarity" which was recommended to me by Dr Clouds boundaries.me Facebook site. I share this as they have been essential in my path of learning about the situation I am in and I would love to share if it is for any help whatsoever if anyone is going through what this author and myself have experienced. Gain knowledge, seek support and find freedom.
Debbie Mirza shares intimately and with research the painful and agonising hell of loving with this type of person and how to find understanding and freedom. I urge anyone n this situation to read or listen to it. It may of tick all the boxes of the person you are dealing with and as I have experienced my CPAN also ticked the boxes of other forms of Narcissistic types depending on who he was with and what situation. So please take what is relevant and help yourself to understand this horrendously confusing relationship dynamic and learn to take care of yourself.

Relatable. 😞

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