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She Comes First

A Guide for Sassy Women Who Want to Get Back in Control of Their Life

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She Comes First

By: Brian Nox
Narrated by: Jerod McBrayer
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An empowering audiobook about standing your ground in dating, in marriage, in your career, and anywhere else.

As an author and a coach who has been helping women for more than a decade, I noticed some women were in trouble, and not just in their relationships. Some had unfulfilling jobs, didn't get paid what they were worth, had always dreamt of starting their own business but never did, felt lonely even though they had a husband and kids.... The list goes on and on. So many women try to be the perfect girlfriends, wives, mothers, friends, sisters, colleagues, business owners, bosses, and more. They love to serve and want to succeed in the many roles they have to play. They are compliant, even to the people who don't really deserve that kind of treatment. They give it all they have, every single day.

Regardless of their tremendous efforts, some women get little in return. They feel used. They get men that keep flaking out, careers that don't feel meaningful, and possibly a body that starts to feel and look more and more tired. Did you ever notice that burnout tends to afflict women much more often than men? There's a reason for that, as you'll learn.

This should stop.

Some women seem to have found a loophole, a backdoor in the current system. There are women out there who have designed the life they live. I call these women high-value women. This value has nothing to do with money. It turns out the high-value woman follows a set of strategies and principles. I'll share them with you throughout this audiobook.

©2017 Brian Nox (P)2017 Brian Nox
Gender Studies Social Sciences Marriage Career Inspiring Thought-Provoking

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This book is a great reminder to women who have forgotten their value, who have been too forgiving, too compromising at their own peril.

It's not because you are not good enough, it's because you have made mistakes based on being too caring.

Sometimes we compromise too much

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very informative and nicely written
although the part about a female child "flirting" was uncomfortable.Children and flirting are not in the same catergory. Really enjoyed the audiobook

brilliant

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I have listened to this a few times. It’s a good mix of research, anecdotes and practical tips. It’s an easy listen with some good tips to help in all areas of a woman’s life… not just relationships. That’s why I got a lot from it.

I believe it’s pitched towards heterosexual women and heterosexual couples mainly. It also is good for those like myself who identify as typically female and heterosexual.

Good sprinklings of humour too.

Handy insights

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from a Male perspective is fascinating. with an easy to listen to voice full of antidotes and incitefulness. I loved this book I've listened to it 5 times already

fantabulous

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I think this book is not just for "desperate women". I think everyone could benefit. Thabk you.

Excellent

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