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Raising Securely Attached Kids

Using Connection-Focused Parenting to Create Confidence, Empathy, and Resilience

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Raising Securely Attached Kids

By: Eli Harwood
Narrated by: Eli Harwood, KJ Althoff, Te Anna Brown, Angela Caldwell, Hannah J. Choi, Candice Czubernat, Michelle Dempsey-Multack, Jon Fogel, Salisha Old Bull, Hector Velazquez, Maggie Viers, Abby Wong-Heffter
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About this listen

 “A comprehensive road map for parents who want to raise securely attached, emotionally healthy children. A parenting must-read.” —Alyssa Blask Campbell, M.Ed., author of Tiny Humans, Big Emotions
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Learn how to create a lifetime of connection, trust, and open communication with your children through connection-focused parenting.

Though there have been countless studies on how attachment styles affect our romantic relationships, Raising Securely Attached Kids is the first book to reframe the subject for caregivers and children, and brings transformative change to your relationships of all stripes.

Therapist and wildly popular attachment research expert Eli Harwood (@attachmentnerd) illuminates the science that explores our innate human need to bond with other humans, and helps us harness it as the only parenting approach proven to have a lasting impact. Her loyal following—fast approaching the millions—connects to Eli’s accessible approach that helps everyone form secure and close relationships with their kids, which helps them develop resilience, confidence, and form close relationships in the future.

Hopeful and inspiring, this essential evidence-based guide shows parents, educators, and anyone with children in their lives that they are not alone in the questions and concerns they may have about raising confident, capable, and caring kids.

Covering every parenting era from newborns to adults, Raising Securely Attached Kids’ simple, real-life strategies will help you:


· Move past old patterns from your childhood to become the parent or caregiver you yearn to be—no matter what you went through growing up
· Resolve past attachment traumas so you can offer a calm, connected, and secure base
· Create a secure attachment relationship with your kids by choosing connection over control
· Build and reinforce a strong foundation of trust with scripts and practical tools
· Understand that it’s never too late to create a stronger bond with your children


*This program includes a downloadable PDF which contains the table of influence approaches as well as the formula list of a child’s internal state vs. external choices. Motherhood Parenting & Families Personal Development Personal Success Relationships School-Age Children Emotions

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For all parents who are trying to navigate the ups and downs of raising children: an excellent guide full of scientific explanations, as well as practical ideas. A very easy read. I most liked the reasearched evidence for children at all developmental stages.

Excellent practical guide for parents

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I loved this book. I’m so pleased that Eli Harwood herself narrated it; she delivers everything with such warmth, kindness and compassion. I liked the pace of the book and how it clearly made its way through different ages and stages of children’s lives. Sharing anecdotes from her own life makes the content very relatable at times! Eli reminds us that we are all messy, complicated beings and that is ok. I found the content hugely validating and inspiring. My eleven year-old and I will undoubtedly benefit from Eli’s words - thank you for a great book.

Warm and compassionate

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I really loved this book. It made me think about my own attachments as a child and how that affects my parenting. The author reads the book and is very engaging, passionate about the topics and honest about her own parenting. I feel like it has changed my perspective in a positive way and feel a lot more connected to my children after reading it.

Must read for parents who want to connect with their children

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Simple in its approach but so useful with great narratives which can be adapted to your language to use in every situation I can think of. So thankful for this book and know it will benefit the lives of so many children and their parents for a more connected society as a whole moving forward 💖

Best parenting book I’ve ever read/listened to!

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So well written and narrated. Is really having an effect already on my relationship with my daughter.

Everyone with kids should read this!

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