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My Mother/My Self

The Daughter's Search for Identity

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My Mother/My Self

By: Nancy Friday
Narrated by: Raquel Harris, Phil McCraken
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When Nancy Friday began her research for My Mother/My Self in the early 1970s no work existed that explored the unique interaction between mother and daughter. Today psychotherapists throughout the world acknowledge that if women are to be able to love without possessing, to find work that fulfills them, and to discover their full sexuality, they must first acknowledge their identity as separate from their mother’s. Nancy Friday’s book played a major role in that acceptance. The greatest gift a good mother can give remains unquestioning love planted deep in the first year of life, so deep and unassailable that the tiny child grown to womanhood is never held back by the fear of losing that love, no matter what her own choice in love, sexuality, or work may be.

Through candid self-disclosure and hundreds of interviews, Friday investigates a generational legacy and reveals the conflicting feelings of anger, hate, and love that daughters hold for their mothers - and why they so often “become” that mother themselves.

From the Trade Paperback edition.

©1977 Nancy Friday (P)2018 Audible, Inc.
Communication & Social Skills Gender Studies Parenting & Families Parents & Adult Children Personal Development Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Self-Esteem Social Sciences

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Absolutely brilliant. I could relate to every stage of this book. Thank you Nancy Friday. I’m now hooked on your books!

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