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Love, War, and ADHD

The Essential Guide to Taming the Turmoil, Reigniting the Passion, and Keeping the Faith When ADHD Turns Your Marriage Upside-Down

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Love, War, and ADHD

By: Phoenix J. Waldren
Narrated by: Phoenix J. Waldren
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Love is messy. Add ADHD to the mix? Welcome to the emotional rollercoaster you didn’t know came with a seatbelt.

Love, War, and ADHD is the real-talk survival guide for couples navigating the wild, frustrating, and sometimes hilarious journey of marriage when one partner has ADHD. Whether you're the one with ADHD or the one holding the emotional duct tape, this audiobook will make you feel seen—and give you tools that actually work.

Inside, you’ll uncover:

Why ADHD isn’t just a “focus issue”—and how it shows up in your love life, communication, and daily chaos

The common landmines (think: missed dates, forgotten chores, impulsive fights) and how to avoid stepping on them

Faith-based encouragement for staying grounded when your relationship feels like it’s spinning

Strategies for rebuilding trust, intimacy, and teamwork—without sounding like a nag or a therapist

How to stop “parenting” your spouse and start partnering again

Honest stories, hard-earned lessons, and a whole lot of grace

Written by someone who’s lived it, this book isn’t sugarcoated or clinical. It’s for real couples who love each other but are exhausted from trying to make things work in a neurotypical world.

Whether you’re on the brink or just want to strengthen your bond, Love, War, and ADHD is your audio lifeline. Play it together. Pause when it hits home. Laugh when it hurts. Grow side by side.

Because even when ADHD drives your marriage wild—love is still worth the fight.

©2025 Phoenix J. Waldren (P)2025 Phoenix J. Waldren
Attention Deficit Disorders Marriage & Long-Term Partnerships Mental Health Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships Funny Witty Marriage Inspiring Health
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This audiobook was a breath of fresh air for anyone navigating the ups and downs of a relationship where ADHD is involved. It’s not just a list of dos and don'ts, but a real survival guide with tips that work in the messy moments. I found myself laughing, nodding along, and even tearing up a little. The practical advice, faith based encouragement, and raw honesty make it feel like you’re talking to a friend who’s been there. Highly recommend it for couples who want to thrive, not just survive.




The Honest Real Talk You Didn’t Know You Needed

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Being in a relationship where one of us has ADHD can be a rollercoaster, and honestly, it often feels like we're the only ones. This audiobook made me feel so incredibly seen and understood. It's not just theories; it's like listening to someone who truly understands the daily chaos and the deep love within it. We found ourselves nodding along, and it offered some genuinely helpful ways to navigate our unique dynamic. If you're in a similar situation, you really need to give this a listen. It's truly a helping hand.

This Book Just Clicked for Us!

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I honestly didn’t think an audiobook could make us feel seen like this. My partner has ADHD, and I’ve been stuck in this weird loop of trying to help without turning into their second mom. This didn’t fix everything, but it gave us real, doable ways to talk, laugh, and not blow up over forgotten laundry. We listened to parts together, paused to rant, and actually made progress. If your relationship feels like it’s barely holding this really helped us reset.

ADHD Was Wrecking Us This Helped Us Reconnect

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This audiobook felt like it was describing my marriage. As the non-ADHD partner, I’ve spent years swinging between exhaustion and guilt, wondering if we were the only ones struggling this hard. Turns out, we’re not and that alone brought some peace. It’s honest, a little raw, but somehow still encouraging. I didn’t feel preached at or pitied just understood. Listening with my spouse sparked one of the best conversations we’ve had in months. Definitely worth the time if your relationship feels stuck in chaos.

When Love Feels Like a Tornado

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This is a very enlightening guide that gives you all the information you need in order to navigate those tricky waters. It is highly recommended!

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