Listen: How to Find the Words for Tender Conversations cover art

Listen: How to Find the Words for Tender Conversations

How to Find the Words for Tender Conversations

Preview
Get this deal Try Premium Plus free
Offer ends 29 January 2026 at 11:59PM GMT.
Prime members: New to Audible? Get 2 free audiobooks during trial.
Just £0.99/mo for your first 3 months of Audible.
1 bestseller or new release per month—yours to keep.
Listen all you want to thousands of included audiobooks, podcasts, and Originals.
Auto-renews at £8.99/mo after 3 months. Cancel monthly.
Pick 1 audiobook a month from our unmatched collection - including bestsellers and new releases.
Listen all you want to thousands of included audiobooks, Originals, celeb exclusives, and podcasts.
Access exclusive sales and deals.
£8.99/month after 30 days. Renews automatically.

Listen: How to Find the Words for Tender Conversations

By: Kathryn Mannix
Get this deal Try Premium Plus free

£8.99/mo after 3 months. Cancel monthly. Offer ends 29 January 2026 at 11:59PM GMT.

£8.99/month after 30 days. Renews automatically. See here for eligibility.

Buy Now for £12.99

Buy Now for £12.99

About this listen

‘Powerful, humane and wise’ JULIA SAMUEL ‘Everyone should read it’ NIGELLA LAWSON ‘Beautiful … This is a book for everyone. You feel held by it’ PHILIPPA PERRY Most of us have a conversation we’re avoiding.

From the bestselling author of With the End in Mind, this is a book about the conversations that matter and how to have them better – more honestly, more confidently and without regret.

A child coming out to their parent. A family losing someone to terminal illness. A friend noticing the first signs of someone’s dementia. A careers advisor and a teenager with radically different perspectives.

There are moments when we must talk, listen and be there for one another. Why do we so often come away from those times feeling like we could have done more, or should have been braver in the face of discomfort? Why do we skirt the conversations that might matter most?

By bringing together stories with a lifetime’s experience working in medicine and the newest psychology, Mannix offers lessons for how we can better speak our mind and help when others need to.

Kathryn Mannix’s ‘With the End in Mind’ was a Sunday Times bestseller the weeks ending 6 January 2018, 13 January 2018 and 3 February 2018.

Conflict Resolution Grief & Loss Medical Medicine & Health Care Industry Personal Development Policy & Administration Professionals & Academics Relationships Inspiring

Listeners also enjoyed...

How to Listen cover art
That One Patient: Doctors and Nurses’ Stories of the Patients Who Changed Their Lives Forever cover art
The Power Of Suffering cover art
Surviving Lasts a Lifetime cover art
Basic Counselling Skills cover art
When Grief Equals Love cover art
Three Simple Steps cover art
This Book Could Save Your Life: Breaking the silence around the mental health emergency cover art
A Place for Everything cover art
Ask Me His Name cover art
Overdue cover art
Breaking and Mending cover art

Critic reviews

‘This gentle-hearted, engaging and intimately readable book is so full of wisdom and compassion. Everyone should read it’
Nigella Lawson

‘Kathryn Mannix has a gift for cutting through the noise and helping us realise what is most important. In a world that never stops talking, this book celebrates and demonstrates the curative power of listening. It is powerful, humane and wise’
Julia Samuel

‘This is a beautiful book … Too often people want their friends and relations to take all the difficult talk to a therapist, there has to be more than the professional listeners who know how to have a mutually impactful beautiful, tender conversation. This is a book for everyone … I actually feel listened to by reading it’
Philippa Perry

‘Kathryn Mannix is our modern-day prophet … This is an essential book for anyone interested in themselves and their fellow humans’
Greg Wise

‘I adore Kathryn's writing. Always sensitive, always thoughtful, an essential read for those looking to connect’
Cariad Lloyd

‘Kathryn Mannix is a natural born storyteller, and there is so much wisdom, tenderness and love packed into this profoundly beautiful book … Her words brim with grace. I loved this book so very much.’
Rachel Clarke

‘The book’s greatest strength is not just the information it shares, but the pure humanity it shows; the halting, fearful, imperfect conversations between people who are all doing their best and sometimes not getting it right. The gems of wisdom apply to all situations, whether someone is at the end of their life or has had a bad day at work … Compassionate, warm and wise’
The Times

‘Like having a long and rewarding conversation with a really good friend … Perhaps the most important component in all of the chapters, however, is the telling of stories … As with Mannix’s first book, there are many moving tales within these pages … Wise, gentle and profound’
Joanna Cannon, The Guardian, Book of the Day

All stars
Most relevant
Kind, measured advice on approaching 'tender' conversations - a term I love - and indeed any conversation or relationship where there is a risk of emotions running high. More than a way to listen, Dr Mannix's book is a way to live - lovingly, openly, curiously. I read this as a health professional and I think - and hope - it will change the way I approach consultations and interactions in personal relationships; the skills are applicable to anyone with a family, friends, customers or patients - in short, everyone.

A wonderful listen

Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.

Loved the pace, the voice of the author, the many valuable lessons and all the advice. Incredibly useful

Must read for anyone who supports others

Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.

Thank you for this wonderful audio book. I recently studied a EOL and palliative post graduate module and Kathryn Mannix was recommended as a resource for communication. You did not disappoint, wonderfully powerful narration. Not just for the module but for life and career skills. Cant wait to start, with the end in mind. 🙏🙏

NQN

Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.

Thank you for sharing a lifetime of experience with the world. A simple yet complex and very profound concept.

Wisdom

Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.

If you are in a caring profession or just want to find everyday conversations easier this book is for you. Provides a real and usable framework for those conversations as well as ideas and skills that are useful to everyone, everywhere. The whole thing is illustrated by illuminating and relatable examples. Fantastic in every way.

Life-Changing Book

Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.

See more reviews