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It Begins with You

The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life

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It Begins with You

By: Jillian Turecki
Narrated by: Jillian Turecki
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About this listen

The beloved relationships coach, and host of the top relationships podcast Jillian on Love reveals nine core truths to self-acceptance and provides powerful self-healing techniques to help us repair our relationship with ourselves and start building the rewarding relationships we deserve.

Jillian Turecki's warm, yet no-nonsense approach to love has attracted a devoted following of millions. In this, her highly anticipated debut book, she makes clear that if you want a meaningful relationship filled with connection, security, and intimacy, you have to take responsibility. The common denominator in all your relationships is you.
Drawn on her decades of experience helping clients heal themselves and their relationships, It Begins with You introduces the 9 core truths we must accept:

Truth 1: It begins with YOU.
Truth 2: The mind is a battlefield.
Truth 3: Lust is not the same thing as love.
Truth 4: You must show up as your higher self.
Truth 5: You must speak up and tell the truth.
Truth 6: You have to love yourself.
Truth 7: You cannot convince someone to love you.
Truth 8: No one is coming to save you.
Truth 9: We must make peace with our parents.

Blending therapeutic strategies, somatic techniques, client case studies, practical tools, tips, and guiding questions, It Begins With You gives us a roadmap to finally start doing the work needed to love ourselves and find the love we deserve.
Love, Dating & Attraction Marriage & Long-Term Partnerships Relationships Inspiring

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Loved everything about this book! Would highly recommend for anyone who’s on a self love/ healing journey. I was worried it might just be quotes from the Instagram account, but it is so much more than that! Listened to it in less than 48 hours.

The best book I’ve read (listened to) on self love!!

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easy to listen with very sound advice, intertwines examples with theory.
Global look at how to find balance.

excelent global look

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I cannot recommend this book enough, the advice is sage and invaluable. For anyone who has struggled with relationships, romantic, family or even to yourself. This is the book for you.

Where has this been all my life

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It’s eye-opening. I’m so glad I gave this book a chance.
Usually I don’t read/listen to the same book more than once, but I’ll be definitely revisiting this one!
So inspiring!

Brilliant

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Read this at the right time. Hope it brings the insight and wisdom I’ve to every other reader/listener!

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