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  • By: Sandra L. Brown MA
  • Narrated by: Callie Beaulieu
  • Length: 8 hrs and 51 mins
  • 4.5 out of 5 stars (82 ratings)
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Summary

In How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved, Sandra L. Brown, MA, describes eight types of dangerous men, their specific traits, and characteristics. She explores victim's stories that tell how they came in contact with each type of dangerous man and their outcome. Brown then presents how to develop a defense strategy - how to spot, avoid, or rid themselves of this type of dangerous man. Brown explains women's innate "red flag" systems - how they work to signal impending danger, and why many women learn to ignore them. With red flags in hand, Brown then guides the listeners through their own personal experiences to develop a personalized "Do Not Date" list. With these tools, Brown shows women how they can spot and avoid patterns of engagement with dangerous men.

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Listen to this. Then listen to it again!!

Life changing. Narration is slightly difficult to listen to but subject matter is worth putting up with it for. Excellent if sometimes unsettling listening but essential homework for every woman!

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Marvelous Book 2 help navigate away from toxicity

I'd agree with90% of the content. Insightful and helpful for protecting against damaging people.

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Insightful

I found this a really helpful guide to what to look out for in dating .
Also an insightful inward look to why we fall for toxic partners, with strategies to stay safe and recognise red flags.
We’ll worry the read

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Really important but..

The book overall is great but I couldn’t help but be triggered about the pervasive attitudes towards addiction and mental illness.. the book is definitely a bit dated in this regard.. in this regard I found it a little unhelpful everyone regardless of their problems has the right to desire healthy and loving relationships and the author seems wed to the idea that some circumstances preclude that based on their particular mental illness. I find that disagreeable.

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Life saver!

Its a must read for women! All women!
Giving not just the useful information, but provides with techniques and real life stories.
Wish this book would exist in Hungarian too, women in my country need these informations.

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Buy for all your female friends and relatives!!

One of the best, most useful and practical books on dating. Wish I’d read it 25 years ago.

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no nonsense therapy

narrated clearly. Great to hear other women's stories. defense strategy is great for deciding if a guys pathological but the book doesn't really explain how to get away from persistent men when 'no' isn't working.

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A must for all, not just DA survivors!

If you're looking for a book to about not making the same mistakes after surviving an abusive or toxic relationship, I cannot recommend this one enough!

Incredibly powerful and compelling audiobook that details the patterns and behaviours of both dangerous men (don't assume that physical abusers are the only type!!!) and the women at risk of fall for them.

This audiobook has empowered me to recognise red flags before they snowball and also given a lot of food for thought about recognising my own behaviours and core beliefs that put me at risk.

Gonna recommend this book to woman in my life.Thank you!!

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Amazing

I’m so happy I picked this book! I cannot express how much it has thought me and and help me understand why am I picking toxic men. 10/10. Totally recommended

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Saving lives

Every woman must read and the real life Beauty&The Beast that is saving lives.

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