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He She They

How We Talk About Gender and Why It Matters

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How can we change the conversation around gender, become better allies, challenge misconceptions, and make the world a better place?


Gender is a human experience, not just a trans experience. Every single one of us has a relationship with gender that we must begin to reckon with.

He She They is Schuyler Bailar's empowering, essential, and urgent guide to understanding gender identity. As a transgender man, inclusion advocate, and LGBTQ+ educator, Schuyler inspires hope and much-needed positive change - he encourages personal reflection and exploration so that every human can be the most compassionate, most authentic version of themselves - and most importantly, become better trans allies in the process.

Schuyler equips listeners with essential trans and gender literacy through empowering and informative stories from his own experiences, as well as those of other trans and non-binary individuals around the world. This urgent, hopeful guide will shift the conversation around gender and allow all listeners to better understand what gender is and how to talk about it at this critical moment.

He She They is a vital, supportive, and life-affirming resource for anyone questioning their gender identity or trying to understand it better.

©2023 Schuyler Bailar (P)2023 Penguin Audio
Gender Studies Human Sexuality LGBTQ+ Studies Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Social Sciences Thought-Provoking Discrimination
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what can I say about this book.. I could not stop listening. I am planning on buying a hard copy as well and encourage people to read it. It should be added to curriculums to educate people on Transgender Healthcare and how to address people in a respectful and inclusive way!!

Most incredible book written!!

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Amazingly written and narrated. With such honesty. Thanks for putting your experience out there so that I was able to continue to learn and grow

So glad I found this book

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The use of language and how to use it was really positive in this book

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Thorough, honest and beautifully written. Very much appreciated by a fellow transgender person. Recommend for anyone.

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