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Get the Guy

Narrated by: Matthew Hussey
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This is the audiobook that single women have been waiting for! Created by the hottest dating coach on the scene, Matthew Hussey, it offers clear, honest, and practical advice for women on how to find their ideal man - and, importantly, how to keep him. Using simple steps, Matthew guides us through the complex maze of dating and shows us just how to find the guy, get the guy, and keep the guy.

Through his work as a peak performance coach, Matthew has gained unparalleled access into what makes guys tick when it comes to women. He is now using this "insider information" to advise women who have been unsuccessful in their quest for a lasting relationship with the right man. His Get the Guy coaching events are hugely successful and the glowing testimonials he receives from those he has helped to find love just go to show that his advice really does work.

In Get the Guy, Matthew shares his dating secrets and provides women with the toolkit they need to approach men, and to create and maintain relationships. Along the way, he explodes some commonly held myths about what it is that guys really want, shares strategies on how women can take control of their dating destinies, and empowers them to go out there and find an exhilarating, adventurous love life.

©2013 Matthew Hussey (P)2013 Random House Audiobooks

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Great ideas and breaks away from The Rules in a refreshing way

Loved the ideas and tips of best things to say to boyfriends and husbands when in a relationship. Have tried them out in my husband of 3 years and noticing a positive change.
However, when I started listening, I felt like I was listening to a late night U.S. infomercial with 10 mins of wordy promises and nothing back. Glad I kept going!
Next up, Matthew's voice. He has a good neutral English accent, great vocabulary, with one hugely distracting flaw - he doesn't pronounce the hard sound of the letter 't' most parts of a word. I'm afraid I noticed it every minute I listened. Other than this, I'm glad I heard the author read the book.

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it was great! opened up my eyes!

absolutely loved it! I am in a relationship and it helped me understand soooo much!!!! loved every second of this book!

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Nice book to understand men behaviour

I enjoyed reading this book from a male perspective.
It doesn't canvas everything as we are all individuals, nevertheless it clarifies how some types of men react to certain scenarios.

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Fires up you confidence

I love this audiobook. I bought the non audio version after attending a evening get the guy seminar which gave practical, useful and confidence building advice that you can start incorporating to increase your chances of meeting the right guy.

I haven't got around to reading the book yet just due to life, I'm great at putting my love situation on the back burner and distracting myself with work and other things. So I bought the audio version with my credits so I had no excuse not to finish.

Matthew Hussey really is an expert on this stuff. Alot of the relationship advice, finding a soulmate stuff I've read, while helpful to some degree focuses alot of visualisations, meditations and passive practices that are designed to attract the right one with intent. They all have useful ideas but for me this book stands out as just being really practical. Hussey gives some intriguing insights into the male mind. He also really helps to really fire up your confidence to start taking steps to move forward rather than take the path of leaving your love life to fate.

There are pauses in the reading in which you can check out online videos where tips and concepts are demonstrated.

What I love most about this book is that as well as the practicality of it all and the onus on you having the power to change things, Matthews enthusiasm fired you up whilst listening. He comes across as someone who is genuinely passionate about helping you to start taking steps to meet the right one. I'm starting to accept the fact that leaving something as important as love to fate and outside circumstance is just too risky. All singletons out there could benefit by starting to be proactive even if just really small everyday ways if they want to meet and attract the quality of relationship they dream about. I'm putting the steps into place already as I feel that I would be an absolute fool not too. My confidence is increasing after getting positive results.

If you want to find some practical advice and confidence building tips on meeting the right man then this book is an important listen.

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Entertaining and life changing

What made the experience of listening to Get the Guy the most enjoyable?

humorous and factual;
I like the simple examples and exercises which recommended in the book which alter my everyday life. Its not only about get the guy but also get a life.

What other book might you compare Get the Guy to, and why?

why men love bitches

If you made a film of this book, what would be the tag line be?

relationship

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Absolutely amazing book! Definite must have!

Buy it, you wont regret it! Makes you realise all the way you've gone wrong in the past and know how to play things moving forward! loved it!

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Way too over the top excited

Way too over the top narrating, had to return after 30 minutes as he was doing my head in.

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Worth it!

loved it and bought Mathews program online
tons of info that I didnt know about guy's mentality!

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very good<br />

i just loved this book. it is worth it and very good, clear to understand.

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Enlightening!

Found this book so insightful that I drew me to write my first review!

Matthew has great energy in his voice. It kept me drawn into the audiobook. I've never been through an audiobook so quickly. Lots of learnings to be taken forward, wish I learnt them earlier but better later than never :-)

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  • Mihaela Constantin
  • 26-11-17

Epiphany

Don't fall into the trap that it is a book JUST for dating. It is first and foremost, a book for personal development, a journey to better yourself and attract people based on how awesome you're becoming. I loved it deeply and I'm recommending it to all my girl friends. Moreover, it is such a pleasure to listen to Matthew, i find myself laughing on the street every new chapter. His energy is amazing and I'm so grateful to have taken part in it.

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  • Olga
  • 01-07-16

Great book!

I must admit that this book didn't have some totally new information for me, as I read a lot of literature of the kind, but Matt really helped me open my eyes on some of my issues and find a way to solve them. I have specific ideas and mindsets that are an impediment and that have deep roots in my personality, but with Matt's guidance I feel like I am ready to start changing them. Good luck to me and all the fellow readers!

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  • Anonymous User
  • 02-10-19

Love Matthews work!

Star!! Fun, exciting and interesting book!! Litsening to this makes you enthusiastic to do whatever you set out to do, and step out of your ordinary!

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  • Christine
  • 24-02-19

Matthew Hustler

This is the worst dating book I’ve ever read and I basically paid for a marketing tool for him to promote his seminars. I didn’t learn anything I don’t think his advice is good at all.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 04-02-19

a must have piece 😘

Loved it!
*self value & Worth moment.
Mathew is so great at his job! tanku 🤗

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  • Anonymous User
  • 08-07-18

Very touching

I'm going to apply the book in my life, saying as an introvert myself. xo

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  • Kindle Customer
  • 04-05-18

Awesome book

I havent gotten the guy but I've started valuing myself more and I am fully equipped to get and keep the guy. Thank you Matt.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 28-08-17

I have hope now

I loved every word! It wasn't boring or strung out. It was very applicable and has shown me, practically, that's it's ok to enter the world of dating and love. I'm gonna listen it once more.

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  • Jessica
  • 14-03-15

Life lesson plus love life

This book is more then just and how to get the guy or keep him for that matter. It gives you lesson that you can apply every part of your life. Plus the bonus video are amazing. Definitely a book I will reread again!

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  • JC
  • 19-01-15

Every girl needs a copy of this book!

Finished this in a week. Matt has so many pearls of wisdom to share, and is incredibly impassioned about sharing them with his readers. He comes across extremely authentic and is a pleasure to listen to. He injects funny stories into the mix too, so it's easy to keep listening and take everything he says to heart. He pushes you throughout to come across as the high value woman you ARE and is is very encouraging. He's blunt about misconceptions and faux pas you may have inadvertently made, but without coming across as bossy - just that he wants the best for you! Lots of relatable real life examples and imagery make this book so much more practical than others, and I love that he reflects candidly on his own dating experiences, without ever disrespecting those he's dated. It really feels like you're with him one on one, and he thanks you at regular intervals for listening which is a very cute touch. The online videos are also a wonderful addition and break up the chapters beautifully. Bought a couple of my single girlfriends a copy straight away, every woman needs this book!