What if dating didn’t have to be exhausting? What if putting yourself out there felt energizing rather than demoralizing? What if you knew the love of your life was waiting for you right now?

Dating coach Amy Nobile Messing has seen it all. The horror stories of ghosting. The "perfect-on-paper" matches with zero chemistry. The exhilarating connection that fizzles. And she understands, both from her clients and her own experience, the time suck involved in modern dating, from the endless swiping, to lackluster first dates, to wondering whether it’s even worth it to put yourself out there.

But there is hope. Amy’s proven success with clients ranging in age from 25 to 75 shows that dating with intention, using her four pillars of aligned love, can lead to your last first date. Her advice is refreshing and pragmatic, with tips including how to:

–Make your dating app profile SO specific that it repels anyone who is not a good match
–Ask questions to see whether a potential partner is truly ready, so you’re not wasting time or risking heartbreak when their actions don’t match up with their words
–Determine whether those butterflies are chemistry or red flags (and how to trust that chemistry can grow over time)
–Empower yourself to date from your worth, not your wound

Whether you're newly single, burned out by dating apps or convinced you've somehow missed your chance at love, Amy’s advice puts you in the driver’s seat. You’re not waiting around to be chosen. You are living a fulfilling, whole life, and you get to confidently choose who you might want to share it with. For anyone single and struggling, or anyone who wants to help their single friends with advice that is both actionable and empowering, Dating For The One is the only book you need.