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Arrangements in Blue

Notes on Love and Making a Life

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Arrangements in Blue

By: Amy Key
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When poet Amy Key was growing up, she looked forward to a life shaped by romance, fuelled by desire, longing and the conventional markers of success that come when you share a life with another person. But that didn't happen for her. Now in her forties, she sets out to explore the realities of a life lived in the absence of romantic love.

Using Joni Mitchell's seminal album Blue - an album that shaped Key's expectations of love - as her guide, she examines the unexpected life she has created for herself. Building a home, travelling alone, choosing whether to be a mother, recognising her own milestones, learning the limits of self-care and the expansive potential of self-friendship, Key uncovers the many forms of connection and care that often go unnoticed.

With profound candour and intimacy, Arrangements in Blue explores the painful feelings we are usually too ashamed to discuss: loneliness, envy, grief and failure. The result is a singular work - a beautifully-written and essential book about building a life on your own terms, which inspires us to live and love more honestly.

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Critic reviews

"Key charts women's lives with a savage delicacy." (Olivia Laing)

"A writer of a rare and strange magic." (Sarah Perry)

"I love Amy Key." (Lauren Laverne)
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I identify with so much in this memoir. It is a riveting read. Especially for a fellow woman living in South Tyneside.

Honest, bold and thought-provoking

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every single word resonated... thank you AMY so so much for articulating what i never could ♡

incredible

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Honest and at the same time quite depressing. For me, it’s motivation to prioritise being a good partner - romantic love isn’t about finding the one but a journey of compromise and growth.

Not for me

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Somewhere, somehow, someone said that humans are more palatable and successfully when paired up. We are conditioned to think that a life without permanent or stable romantic life makes us an inferior creature: that we haven't 'made' it without being a couple. This book is a beautiful, unhurried portrait and inquiry into relating to the woes and illumination that is being in a relationship with one's self. Exquisite in content and lovingly written.

An honest outpouring of relating to self

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I had just finished a really good book and was looking for my next great read. I started and stopped Caledonian Road twice because I just couldn't get into it. Instead I started listening to Arrangements in Blue while deciding what to listen to next. I was not expecting much, I can't even remember how I learnt about it, someone must have recommended it and I'm so glad they did. It started with me not really paying attention, this lasted for around the first 20 minutes, suddenly I realised it had my attention. So I started again from the beginning and listened properly.

Amy's experiences resonated with me it was uncanny. It was as if she had read my diary and listened to my inner thoughts Never quite having the relationships that my peers appeared to be enjoying and not for want of trying and yet it was perplexing why not. She discusses abortions and being other in a society where couples and couples with children are the norm. I kept flicking back, feeling sure it must be a work of fiction and somehow I'd missed this point. But no, it seems not and yet her story is so much like mine. I didn't want it to finish and shall probably go back to read it again.

Loved It

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