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How to Be Human

The Manual

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How to Be Human

By: Ruby Wax
Narrated by: Ruby Wax, Ash Ranpura, Gelong Thubten
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Penguin presents the audiobook edition of How to be Human: The Manual written and read by Ruby Wax with Ash Ranpura and Gelong Thubten.

A three way encounter between a Monk, a neuroscientist and Ruby Wax sounds like the set up for a joke. Instead it's produced one of the most fascinating, intriguing and informative books about minds and bodies and brains and mindfulness I've ever encountered. A triangulation on what it means to be human. Utterly readable and surprisingly wise. Neil Gaiman

How to Be Human is, without exaggeration, a lifeline; wise, practical and funny, it is a handbook for those in despair. It is actually for everyone alive, for the curious, or disillusioned or muddled or just plain happy. Ruby, the Monk and the Neuroscientist are today's Magi. Joanna Lumley

With this marvellous book, Ruby Wax has confirmed her position as one of the most readable, inspirational and engaging writers in the field of human mental health, happiness and fulfilment. Stephen Fry

It took us 4 billion years to evolve to where we are now. No question, anyone reading this has won the evolutionary Hunger Games by the fact you're on all twos and not some fossil. This should make us all the happiest species alive - most of us aren't, what's gone wrong? We've started treating ourselves more like machines and less like humans. We're so used to upgrading things like our iPhones: as soon as the new one comes out, we don't think twice, we dump it. (Many people I know are now on iWife4 or iHusband8, the motto being, if it's new, it's better.)

We can't stop the future from arriving, no matter what drugs we're on. But even if nearly every part of us becomes robotic, we'll still, fingers crossed, have our minds, which, hopefully, we'll be able use for things like compassion, rather than chasing what's 'better', and if we can do that we're on the yellow brick road to happiness.

I wrote this book with a little help from a monk, who explains how the mind works, and also gives some mindfulness exercises, and a neuroscientist who explains what makes us 'us' in the brain. We answer every question you've ever had about: evolution, thoughts, emotions, the body, addictions, relationships, kids, the future and compassion. How to be Human is extremely funny, true and the only manual you'll need to help you upgrade your mind as much as you've upgraded your iPhone.

Anthropology Biological Sciences Evolution Evolution & Genetics Mental Health Mood Disorders Personal Development Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Science Stress Management Funny Inspiring Thought-Provoking Witty Meditation Mindfulness Human Brain Emotions

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Critic reviews

With this marvellous book, Ruby Wax has confirmed her position as one of the most readable, inspirational and engaging writers in the field of human mental health, happiness and fulfilment.
Ruby has beautifully fused neurology and spirituality and given us a means to cope with operating both a mind and a brain. If this mental upgrade works then all other books will become defunct as we repose in bliss.
How to Be Human is, without exaggeration, a lifeline; wise, practical and funny, it is a handbook for those in despair. It is actually for everyone alive, for the curious, or disillusioned or muddled or just plain happy. Ruby, the Monk and the Neuroscientist are today's Magi.
Ruby Wax is a stitch. And this stitch can make you laugh while showing you some exceedingly useful things to heal and transform your life. What she is pointing to is way too serious to take too seriously. Seriously!
As I expected its funny and thoroughly readable but what I hadn't expected was that it would change the way I think about how I think. Remarkable work from Miss Wax
Ready to laugh and cry as you dive deeply into what it means to be human? Guiding us across evolution, from the far past into the present and even preparing us for the future, Ruby Wax and her neuroscientist and meditating monk colleagues provide us with a science-informed, practical, and humorous guide that is as hysterical as it is profound. Be prepared to feel your way into well-being with this magnificent blending of entertainment and education into the nature of our minds' thoughts, feelings, and identity as you explore and expand who really you are.
Ruby Wax has spent a lifetime trying to be human.... with this book, she's so very nearly there...
This is a present for your head and your heart. Do yourself a favour and read it, you'll love it
A guide to mindfulness that's as hilarious as it is useful (Arianna Huffington on 'A Mindfulness Guide for the Frazzled')
A wonderful book full of passion and verve (Prof. Mark Williams on 'A Mindfulness Guide for the Frazzled')
All stars
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‘A billion hours ago, modern Homo sapiens emerged … A billion seconds ago, the IBM personal computer was released. A billion Google searches ago … was this morning.’ - Hal Varian, Google’s chief economist. Ruby Wax and a neurologist (Ash Ranpura) and a monk (Gelong Thubten) talk about a wide range of approaches to help support the ever evolving (though sometimes backwards) human being. How did a single life form in a swamp 3 billion years ago and sharing DNA with every other living thing on the web of life, that one of the ape like species leant to talk and communicate. Most of us are good and kind but we focus on loss and suffering. We have thoughts and emotions within a body that contains a brain in a black box that has to make sense of a myriad of sensations and turn them into some of of sensation that we call reality. Though our reality is different to other living things reality. We are driven by sex, mess up our kids (more and more with less and less true suffering - interestingly world war one and two children are actually quite resilient [see the Happiness Hypothesis by Jonathan Haidgt that mentions this]. Some of us get addicted to stuff (drugs, alcohol, vapid and meaningless celebrities) but then some mindfulness exercises which are really good. And she ends with forgiveness - which is hard but it's better than any alternative. And if we could only be a little bit kinder, more empathetic and compassionate - then surely that has to be a good thing. Its all quite brief but its funny also. I liked listening and reading the words of Ruby, the neuroscientist and the monk. And we need to move more, get better sleep, think about what you eat, and practice gratitude. And enjoy the experience of being a live and the stoics are worth a read. Its been a while since I read this book but I enjoyed it.

Things I learnt including knowing that your brain is having to sort out 11 million bits of information per second. Its shaped by our DNA which creates a code that then gets turned on or off by our environment. As we get old we change in so many ways and we are driven by a whole range of chemicals called hormones.
There is a nice story by the monk that is someone throws a stone at you, who do you blame? The person when it was the stone that hit you. So why not blame the stone? Because the stone had no intention to hurt you. So by that logic you should also not blame the person but blame the anger and suffering that made them throw the stone. When someone huts us, we always think they're out to get us and that it was deliberate. But if we understand the mechanism of the human mind, you know that people lose control and do and say things that they don’t intend when they are in pain.

How to be human and lead a better life is to be a comedian, neurologist and a monk

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I like how everything is backed up by science and its a great combination between Ruby, the Neuroscientist and the Monk.

Really good and very insightful

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lovely book about our minds and mental health with enough facts to satisfy my brain and enough humour to satisfy my body. An honest and interesting listen. I plan to explore more ruby wax now!

science, real life and heart all come together!

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loved it! simplified mental health issues. good intro to mindfulness. Ruby Wax and the other authors were amusing and serious

very informative.

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loved it. having ruby read this book to me was icing on the cake. a wonderfull story with lots of gentle humor that every woman and man and teenagers should read. especially to help us understand how we can lovingly improve all our relationships

fabulous

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