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The New Topping Book

By: Dossie Easton, Janet Hardy
Narrated by: Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton
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About this listen

Two decades ago, this book (and its companion volume, The New Bottoming Book) began teaching tens of thousands of people the joyous arts of BDSM topping and bottoming - not just "how-to," but "why-to"...the insider details of emotional support and ethical interaction during kinky play. Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and connection, have created a whole new universe of possibilities for players. Now, the completely updated revised New Topping Book gives even more insights and ideas, updated for a new millennium, about how to be a successful, popular player!

©2003 Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy (P)2016 Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy Personal Development

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Mostly liked it, but dislike how they conflate topping and doming. They're not the same at all.

I understand that the book is old, but it was annoying to hear them use "he or she" instead of "they". Wish it was more trans inclusive.

Some of the segments about age play weirded me out a bit. The parts about calling on Kali seemed a tad problematic.

I don't know how to feel about the spirituality part, but I guess it's not for everyone.

Mostly good

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Finally, I got to listen to this little masterpiece - recommend it for anyone and everyone that might be curious about the topic of topping and/or BDSM

Amazing

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Don't over look this book even if you don't see yourself as a Top! Master or Mistress, Dominant or Daddy It's worth a listen to. Entertaining and thought provoking even I learnt a few things!

Perfect from Novice to Experienced

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Very interesting to hear about SM from two veterans who clearly have a lot of experience. Would recommend to anyone else interested in exploring kink.

Informative and Engaging

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