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You’re Not the Problem
- The Impact of Narcissism and Emotional Abuse and How to Heal
- Narrated by: Helen Villiers, Katie McKenna
- Length: 7 hrs and 49 mins
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Summary
The Instant Sunday Times Bestseller & Top 10 Irish Bestseller
'Helen & Katie's advice will change your life. It did mine.' - Kay Allinson, co-founder of Pinch of Nom
This book will show you what a narcissist looks like and how their emotional abuse impacts the lives and relationships of their families.
Many emotionally abusive behaviours from parent to child have become socially acceptable; because they're so prolific, they're normalised. Furthermore, humans often repeat relational patterns, passing the baton of trauma from generation to generation, until someone decides to change things. You're Not the Problem shows you how to recognise these behaviours and realise the profound impact they have had, and still have, and to see the patterns they form in our relationships with parents, partners, friends and colleagues. Using stories and examples from their clinical experience and extensive research, psychotherapists Helen Villiers and Katie McKenna share:
· What Narcissistic Personality Disorder is
· How to recognise emotional abuse in family relationships
· The immediate and long-term impact
· Practical strategies for healing
· How to avoid repeating these behaviours
With a compassionate, sympathetic approach to looking at your familial patterns, Villiers and McKenna show you how to truly break free from these toxic relationships and reclaim your life.
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- Jeanne Yelverton
- 24-05-24
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Could not stop listening, I have recommended to so many friends and family in particular
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- Anne Johnson
- 19-04-24
Finally someone understands
From the very first chapter of this book I have felt like I am not alone in my feelings. I finally feel like someone understands me and now I understand it really wasn’t my fault. What I experienced growing up is not how it’s supposed to be.
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- Sam
- 15-04-24
Wow, what a book.
This is a hard read if you’ve suffered from parental narcissistic abuse. It’s eye opening, heartbreaking and brings to the front all kinds of emotions. I’ve sobbed listening to it & also raged with anger at the memories listening to this book has brought back. This book is a must listen for anyone who wants to heal and grow after suffering narcissistic abuse.
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- Kindle Customer
- 28-05-24
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this book gently takes you down a path that you may have locked away, it made me realise the things said to me weren't right, and not OK.
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- Amazon Customer
- 15-04-24
Next level!
I thought the podcast and patreon were brilliant, but this book takes recovery to a whole new level. So pleased with this purchase! Highly recommended to anyone that suspects they have experienced narcissistic abuse or want to understand and help someone who has gone through it.
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- Anonymous User
- 19-04-24
AFTER NEARLY 60 YEARS
I just can’t thank Helen and Katie enough this book is quite frankly life changing - everything I experienced from both my parents as a child was not normal and impacted me , and continues to impact me daily . It has been a highly emotional @raw read “ but I now completely understand that It wasn’t my fault and I’m beginning to know I am a good, kind empathetic person - thank you to all concerned from the bottom of my heart ❤️
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- Eoins
- 11-05-24
The difference from the podcast!
I had a suspicion that the book would be like a longer podcast from the InSight Duo. I was wrong. I have listened once and intend to re-listen and take the exercises one by one. Helen and Katie, thank you for the validation. Having you in my ears while I am navigating my journey of self-discovery has been invaluable.
The examples really stood out.
Delighted with your success, wishing the InSight duo all the best!
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- Kindle Customer
- 13-04-24
The compassion inherent in every chapter. The practical help.
I didn't dislike it. I wish there was more to honest. I'm going to have to listen again to take it all in.
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- Ember
- 11-04-24
The BEST book on the subject I've ever read.
I LOVE this book! I love it so much I've ordered a hard copy too, and I've never done that before. Helen and Katie do such an excellent job of explaining how and why things happen in relationships with narcissistic types of people, particularly parents (my situation), and they include loads of things I've never heard in books before that describe my own experiences (and I've read a lot of books on the subject). "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents" by Dr Lindsay Gibson was my favourite book on the subject until now, but I think "You're not the problem" is even better. Like my title says, this is the best book on the subject I've ever read.
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- Becca Heath
- 14-04-24
Just wow.
As an avid listener to the podcast, I was beyond excited for the book release. I was a little worried about being disappointed after waiting in such anticipation but I was worrying unnecessarily! So much insight, a depth of revelation I was not expecting and clarity to many whys I had had my while life. Thank you to depths of my soul to both Helen and Katie for such an amazing resource! (I may have just purchased a Paper copy to refer back to!)
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