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Welcome to the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast. My name is Anwar White, but you can just call me your own personal dating and relationship coach! Each week you’ll hear actionable advice, tips, and strategies that you can implement in your own love life. I’m talking about healing your heart, dating effectively, and understanding men, so that you can, you guessed it, get your guy! Are you ready to level-up your love life?

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  • Is It You or the App? Why Online Dating Feels Impossible for Black Women (Love Apptually) with Shalini Kantayya
    11 Nov 2026
    Is it you, or is it the app?If you feel like you’re playing the same game on dating apps every day, this episode is for you.I sat down with filmmaker Shalini Kantayya, director of Love Appually, a documentary about dating apps and modern dating culture. We talk about the hidden “desirability scores” apps have been reported to use, what happens to your most intimate data, and what Black and brown women experience online. I also share the results of an internal study where 75 of my clients switched their profile race from Black to white and back, and what changed.Keep your eyes open, and stop making it about you.Is Hinge Racist? My 6-Week Black Women Racial Hinge Study Timestamps:00:00 Welcome + meet Shalini Kantayya01:30 Why she made Love Appually03:00 From the attention economy to the "intimacy economy"04:45 Two companies and the dating app market06:30 Why you feel stuck: the endless scroll and the paradox of choice08:30 Hidden "desirability scores" on dating apps11:45 How apps may rank women and people of color15:00 Your data: what apps know, sell, and don't tell you17:05 Pre-order Girl, Get Your Guy18:25 Anything good about dating apps? (and the app-free December challenge)20:15 What Black and brown women experience on the apps21:30 Why men feel dehumanized too: match rates and the manosphere24:30 My study: 75 clients switched their profile race28:45 Why my program uses apps less (referrals and offline)29:30 Vulnerability: why taking the mask off creates intimacy32:20 Where to watch Love AppuallyWatch Love Appually: Wednesday, November 18, 2026 at 8:00 PM Venue: Village East by Angelika, 181 Second Ave New York City Available for special DOC NYC digital screening across the U.S. for one week beginning November 18thDOC NYC & VIRTUAL TICKETS: https://www.docnyc.net/film/love-apptuallyThe premiere will be followed by a special Q&A with the director moderated by Faith Hill, staff writer of The Atlantic. BIO:Shalini Kantayya is an acclaimed film director whose work marries the future of technology with the future of story. Her film TikTok, Boom. premiered at Sundance 2022, was nominated for the Grand Jury Prize, and earned a 2023 Emmy nomination. Coded Bias (Sundance 2020), hailed as “the most important film about AI you can see today,” earned Emmy, Critics’ Choice, and NAACP Image Award nominations and reached global audiences on Netflix. Love Apptually completes her trilogy tracing the arc of technological power: from bias in code, to global attention, to the systems mediating human intimacy.Her debut, Catching the Sun, was a New York Times Critics’ Pick. Kantayya is a TED Fellow, Fulbright Scholar, and Sundance Fellow.Shalini's Links → Website | Instagram | Facebook | Speaking AgentTake 10 seconds to tap Follow so you never miss an episode. And if this one hit home, send it to the girlfriend who needs to hear it.Take the Dating Archetype QuizWays I can help you:Pre-order my book, Girl, Get Your Guy! (launching February 2, 2027). Book a call with me. Join the Get Your Guy Club Missed my Q&A TikTok Lives? Catch up here!Sincerely,Coach AnwarSend us Fan MailThank you for listening, girl. If this episode helped you, here’s how you can help me (it takes less than a minute):Tap Follow on Apple Podcasts so you never miss an episodeLeave a rating or a short review. Tell me what clicked for you. I read them!Every follow and share helps more women find this podcast and get ready for the love they deserve.Sincerely,Coach Anwar
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  • The 3 Modes of Dating (Which Mode are You In?)
    4 Nov 2026

    Hey girl,

    In this episode, I talked about the three modes of dating: survival, fear, and joy, and how the mode you’re in can shape who you choose, what you accept, and how you feel throughout the process.

    If you’ve ever spiraled over a text, accepted crumbs because something felt better than nothing, or cut a man off before he could get close, this conversation is for you. We’re getting honest about what it looks like to date from scarcity or self-protection, and how to move toward curiosity, confidence, and actually having fun.


    Take the Dating Archetype Quiz


    Whenever You Are Ready

    Here are 4 ways I can help you:

    • ​ Pre-Order My Book: Girl, Get Your Guy! - Starting this July, all the way until the official book launch on February 2, 2027, when you pre-order this book, you'll get:
      • 🤖 Access to Anwar AI: Get personalized dating advice 24/7 from an AI trained on Anwar's proven methods. Available immediately after purchase.
      • 📆 Monthly Group Calls with Anwar: Bring your real dating situations, get direct feedback live.
    • Book A Call With Me - I've been getting A LOT of DM and email requests to chat with me and answer specific questions about love, dating, relationships, and men, so I'm opening back up my limited calendar for a few calls. So book a time with me here!
    • Join the Get Your Guy Club- Wanna have Dating Support for a year to help you get your guy, but at your own pace. You can get access to my 2 weekly group calls, my private Facebook group, Monthly 1-on-1 calls, and my online course with 40+ hours of content for just monthly payments of $350…
    • ​Check out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. Check out the latest episode here.


    Sincerely,

    Coach Anwar

    Pre-Order My Book: Girl, Get Your Guy!

    Take the Dating Archetype Quiz

    Book a Consult to Work with Me

    Join my Get Your Guy Club

    Buy My Dating Strategy Course

    Check out My Latest Podcast Episode

    Missed any of my Q&A TikTok Live sessions?


    Send us Fan Mail

    Thank You: A big thank you to our listeners for tuning in! Your support and feedback are invaluable to us. If you enjoyed this episode, please consider subscribing, rating, and sharing the podcast with others who might benefit from it. For more updates and behind-the-scenes content, follow me on social media and visit my website. We appreciate you being part of our community!

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  • Unlearning What You Were Taught About Dating with our GYG Coach Lauren Mathues
    28 Oct 2026

    Hey Girl,

    In this episode, I sat down with my friend and fellow GYG coach, Coach Lauren Matthews, for an honest conversation about dating, healing, and getting out of your own way. We talk about the messages many of us grew up with, especially if you were raised in the church or still carry a Christian upbringing with you, and how those messages shape the way we date. From purity culture to “just wait on God,” we get into how to rethink the way you date and why taking action matters more than waiting for love to find you. If you’re a church girlie, a recovering church girlie, or you just wonder why this feels so hard, this one’s for you


    BIO:
    Coach Lauren is a dating and relationship coach who helps singles date with clarity, confidence, and faith. Since 2018, she’s guided women through the challenges of modern dating by untangling unhelpful church teachings, healing from purity culture, and embracing their God-given identity. Now happily married for over a decade, she’s passionate about helping others find real, lasting love without compromising their values.

    Resources Mentioned:

    Instagram | Website


    Whenever You Are Ready

    Here are 4 ways I can help you:

    • ​ Pre-Order My Book: Girl, Get Your Guy! - Starting this July, all the way until the official book launch on February 2, 2027, when you pre-order this book, you'll get:
      • 🤖 Access to Anwar AI: Get personalized dating advice 24/7 from an AI trained on Anwar's proven methods. Available immediately after purchase.
      • 📆 Monthly Group Calls with Anwar: Bring your real dating situations, get direct feedback live.
    • Book A Call With Me - I've been getting A LOT of DM and email requests to chat with me and answer specific questions about love, dating, relationships, and men, so I'm opening back up my limited calendar for a few calls. So book a time with me here!
    • Join the Get Your Guy Club- Wanna have Dating Support for a year to help you get your guy, but at your own pace. You can get access to my 2 weekly group calls, my private Facebook group, Monthly 1-on-1 calls, and my online course with 40+ hours of content for just monthly payments of $350…
    • ​Check out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. Check out the latest episode here.

    Sincerely,

    Coach Anwar

    Pre-Order My Book: Girl, Get Your Guy!

    Book a Consult to Work with Me

    Join my Get Your Guy Club

    Buy My Dating Strategy Course

    Check out My Latest Podcast Episode

    Missed any of my Q&A TikTok Live sessions?

    Send us Fan Mail

    Thank You: A big thank you to our listeners for tuning in! Your support and feedback are invaluable to us. If you enjoyed this episode, please consider subscribing, rating, and sharing the podcast with others who might benefit from it. For more updates and behind-the-scenes content, follow me on social media and visit my website. We appreciate you being part of our community!

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