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Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My!

By: Behk & LAH Media LLC
  • Summary

  • We're Behk & LAH /ehl-uh/ and we are your hosts of the podcast, Narcissists, Gaslighters, and Cheaters, Oh My! We have casual conversations with everyday people about their past toxic relationships with a funny, light-heartedness that might have you crying but hopefully, some laughing too.


    Our mission is to shed light on toxic relationships, providing a source of comfort, knowledge, and guidance for those who have experienced or are currently in such relationships. We have each experienced toxic relationships. After years of therapy and healing, we want to let you know it’s possible to break free. It’s not easy, but it's possible and absolutely worth it. Oh my, let's get into it!

    Help us keep the show going on Patreon

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Episodes
  • UPDATED: The Relative Truth
    May 29 2024

    UPDATE: We are excited to announce that the episode has been updated to include the end of Shirley's story. We appreciate your patience and understanding as we worked through some technical difficulties to bring you the full, unfiltered account of Shirley's journey. Thank you for your continued support and for bearing with us. We hope you find the updated episode both compelling and insightful.


    Tip: If you're not seeing the 1:09 long version yet, you'll need to clear the cache in the app. ;)


    In this episode, we dive into the story of Shirley, a woman who believed she had found her soulmate in an 8-year relationship, only to uncover a shocking web of deceit.


    Discussions in this episode:

    • Meet a listener, Shirley
    • Seemingly perfect eight years
    • Shocking discovery of her partner's affairs
    • Unraveling his pattern of serial cheating
    • Emotional and psychological impact
    • Journey to healing and reclaiming her life
    • Complexities of betrayal and infidelity
    • Resilience and finding strength after heartbreak


    Shirley's world is turned upside down when she discovers that her seemingly perfect partner not only cheated on her but did so with his first cousin. As the layers of his infidelity unravel, Shirley learns he is a serial cheater, hiding numerous affairs behind a facade of loyalty.


    Join us as we explore Shirley's journey through love, betrayal, and the path to reclaiming her life after such a devastating revelation. This episode is a raw and honest look at the impact of infidelity and the strength it takes to overcome it.


    About Shirley's Upcoming Podcast

    Shirley is starting her own podcast called "Audacity." In her new podcast, Shirley will dive deep into her detailed account of betrayal and healing, joined by her ex-husband's sister and special guests, including her betrayal coach. We will keep you updated on the launch of "Audacity," and once available, we will leave a link here for you to follow and support Shirley's journey. Stay tuned for more updates, and thank you for your continued support!


    Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, narcissistic abuse, drug use, incest, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.


    We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.


    Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.


    Hosts: Behk & LAH

    Follow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompod

    Production & Design: LAHarden

    Music: No Reason Why by Anchor

    Help us keep the show going on Patreon

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    1 hr and 9 mins
  • Behk & LAH Banter About Holler Goblins, Clueless Men, and T.Swift
    May 22 2024

    In this episode, hosts Behk and LAH take a break from the heavy and dive into a whirlwind of ADHD-fueled topics, from holler goblins, men who just don’t get it, to our favorite songs from Taylor’s The Tortured Poets Department album.


    Discussions in this episode:

    • What is sassy water?
    • The 5th-grade dance drama
    • Upcoming guests
    • Corporate event butt sketch artists
    • The Kinky Renaissance Fair
    • Have you ever heard of the Holler Goblins?
    • Harry the Bigfoot
    • Fuck venomous snakes!
    • Bear vs Man in the Woods
    • The clueless guy
    • Taylor Swift and TTPD


    You can tune in to this episode for a rollercoaster ride of topics, sprinkled with lots of laughter.


    The Podcasts, Docu-Series, and Documentaries Behk mentioned:

    • Hellier
    • The Unbinding
    • Greg & Dana Haunted Podcast
    • Finding Bigfoot


    Content Warning: This episode discusses snakes and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.


    We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.


    Would you like to be a guest and share your story on the pod or do you have a question for us to share and answer on one of our banter episodes? Please fill out our form.


    Hosts: Behk & LAH

    Follow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompod

    Production & Design: LAHarden

    Music: No Reason Why by Anchor

    Help us keep the show going on Patreon

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    38 mins
  • Mr Audacity
    May 15 2024

    In this episode, we delve into the harrowing story of Jodi, whose life took a dark turn when she entered a relationship with a friend. Thinking she knew him well after five years of acquaintance, she never imagined the horror that awaited her.


    Discussions in this Episode:

    • Bloody Noses and Tornadoes
    • Meet a listener, Jodi
    • John moves in, turns out to be a nightmare
    • Jodi gets hooked on meth
    • Police frequently visit her home
    • John ignores protective orders
    • Drains Jodi's life in 10 months
    • Sons sense trouble
    • Jodi struggles to break free
    • Therapy and support help her regain strength
    • Jodi starts to reclaim her life and find happiness again


    Initially charming, he quickly turned into her worst nightmare. An audacious narcissist, he manipulated her with ease, saying all the right things to gain her trust. After letting him move into her home upon his release from jail, things spiraled out of control. He got her hooked on methamphetamine, and soon police became frequent visitors to her once peaceful home.


    Despite protective orders, he refused to leave, leaving Jodi trapped in a living nightmare. In just 10 months, he managed to drain her of life, both mentally and financially. Even her sons sensed something was deeply wrong, though shielded from the worst of his abuse.


    Overcoming manipulation, addiction, and the constant threat of danger, she finally managed to escape. But the battle wasn't over; it was just beginning. The process of healing and rebuilding her life was slow and painful. Therapy and support became her lifeline as she worked to regain her strength and sense of self. It is a journey filled with setbacks and challenges, but gradually, Jodi starts to reclaim her life.


    Join us as we explore Jodi's journey from trust to betrayal, shedding light on the insidious nature of methamphetamine addiction and the devastating impact it can have on lives, especially when coupled with the manipulation of an audacious narcissist.


    Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, narcissistic abuse, drug use, domestic violence, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.


    We are not doctors or therapists; you should not take our opinions as medical advice.


    Have a story you would like to share? Please fill out our form.


    Hosts: Behk & LAH

    Follow us on Instagram + Facebook @ngcompod

    Production & Design: LAHarden

    Music: No Reason Why by Anchor

    Help us keep the show going on Patreon

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    1 hr and 24 mins

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