• Build Your Joyful and Thriving Lawyer Life// Helping Lawyers Create Joyful and Thriving Careers & Businesses (An Original CreativesEd® Podcast)

  • By: Sheila M. Wilkinson LMSW Esq.
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Build Your Joyful and Thriving Lawyer Life// Helping Lawyers Create Joyful and Thriving Careers & Businesses (An Original CreativesEd® Podcast)

By: Sheila M. Wilkinson LMSW Esq.
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  • 👋🏼 Looking for clarity and guidance about the next steps in your legal career? Ready to get away from the toxic focus on the quantity of work in billables, and instead, focus on the quality of your work? Want to spend your energy on what matters and have a life outside the office? If any of these were a whole body hell yes, then you’re in the right place! ~ 🥰 Hi! I’m Sheila Wilkinson, your host, and I’m an attorney, just like you. ~ 💥 I built a multi-million dollar law firm from scratch and when the managing partner refused to uphold his end of the bargain, I walked away from it all. Now, I live on two continents and help other lawyers live their best lives, too! ~ ✔ Yes, I still practice law, and I’m also a coach, consultant, and educator. I’ve spoken on plenty of stages across the globe - CLEs included! ~ ⚡ My mission is to help you figure out exactly who you really are and what you really want, underneath and in spite of all those shoulda, woulda, couldas, because mark my words: what you want is within reach, and it’s a lot closer than you think! ~ 📝 So, grab something to take notes with and let’s dig deep about what you really want your joyful and thriving lawyer life to look like! ~ And when you’re ready, I've got a ton of free and low-cost resources you can start creating your joyful and thriving life today. But here’s a secret: the magic really happens when we work together, so don't be afraid to schedule a call with me at https://sheilawilkinson.com and let’s chat. It’s not a sales call, and I won’t try to sell you anything - PROMISE. I want to help you get to know yourself better and support you in your dreams! ~ 💌 CONNECT: Tag me, follow me, and DM me with your thoughts and questions: Instagram @sheilamwilkinson ~ 🎧 RATE THIS PODCAST/EPISODE: I'd love it if you'd rate this podcast / episode on Apple Podcasts and Spotify and leave a review! Thanks! ~ ~ Lawyer Heath, Wellness & Wellbeing * Career + Business Coach for Lawyers * Legal Ethics * Alternative Legal Careers * Avoiding Legal Malpractice and Bar Complaints * Becoming a Lawyer * Law Jobs * Law School Wellness
    2023
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  • The Joyful and Thriving™ Lawyer Formula: My 3Cs Framework to help you to build your own Joyful and Thriving™ Lawyer Life! {Ep. 11}

    The Joyful and Thriving™ Lawyer Formula: My 3Cs Framework to help you to build your own Joyful and Thriving™ Lawyer Life! {Ep. 11}
    Dec 12 2023
    Imagine winning 37 million dollars tomorrow and never having to work again ... What would you do with your time? Dive with me into my transformative 3Cs framework – Clarity, Confidence, and Courage – designed to break the cycle of uncertainty. Learn how these elements can lead to a never-ending cycle of self-love, self-care, and joy in your legal life. In this episode, we unravel the formula for lawyers seeking a profound shift in their professional and personal lives. I share insights on how clarity, confidence, and courage are what you need to unlock a fulfilling legal career. Here are five key takeaways: Self-Reflection for Transformation: Quote: "What would you do with your time if you won 37 million dollars tomorrow? Your answer holds the key to transforming your legal journey." Takeaway: Embrace self-reflection as the catalyst for a transformative legal career. The 3Cs Framework: A Never-Ending Cycle: Quote: "Clarity, Confidence, and Courage create a beautiful, never-ending cycle of self-love, self-care, and joy." Takeaway: Understand how the 3Cs form a cyclical process, propelling you towards a more satisfying legal life. Clarity: The Foundation of Joyful Lawyering: Quote: "Clarity is knowing specifics - who, what, where, why, when, how. It's the cornerstone for peace and radical honesty." Takeaway: Learn why clarity is the foundation, leading to radical honesty, improved transparency, and identifying what you truly want. Recognizing and Overcoming Common Pitfalls:  Quote: "Many lawyers experience pain from being unclear and uncertain. It's time to recognize and overcome these pitfalls." Takeaway: Acknowledge common pitfalls and take active steps to overcome uncertainty and lack of clarity. Empowerment Through Decision-Making: Quote: "You are the secret sauce. Learn to tap into what YOU want + WHY, make a plan, and go get it!" Takeaway: Empower yourself by making decisions based on your internal desires and motivations.   This episode is a guide for lawyers ready to break free from the ordinary and create a legal journey filled with purpose, satisfaction, and success.   >>>  Are you looking for clarity and guidance about the next steps in your legal career?  Ready to get away from the toxic focus on the quantity of work in billables, and instead, focus on the quality of your work?  Want to focus on what matters and have a life outside the office?  If any of these were a whole body hell yes, then you’re in the right place!  Hi! I’m Sheila Wilkinson, your host, and I’m an attorney, just like you.  I built a multi-million dollar law firm from scratch and when the managing partner refused to uphold his end of the bargain, I walked away from it all. Now, I live on two continents and help other lawyers live their best lives, too!  I still practice law, and I’m also a coach, consultant, and educator. I’ve spoken on plenty of stages across the globe - CLEs included!  My mission is to help you figure out exactly who you really are and what you really want, underneath and in spite of all those shoulda, woulda, couldas, because mark my words: what you want is within reach, and it’s a lot closer than you think!  So, grab something to take notes with and let’s dig deep about what you really want your joyful and thriving lawyer life to look like!  And when you’re ready, below are some free and low-cost resources you can start creating your joyful and thriving life today. But here’s a secret: the magic really happens when we work together, so schedule a call with me and let’s chat. It’s not a sales call, and I won’t try to sell you anything - PROMISE. I want to help you get to know yourself better and support you in your dreams! 🥰 RESOURCES FROM THE SHOW  Schedule a call with Sheila to chat about YOUR Joyful and Thriving™ Lawyer Life! Let’s Connect via Email: https://sheilawilkinson.com/connect  Baby Steps - Get Weekly Strategies for how to thrive in your world - for free! ABA Article: COVID’s Unexpected Gift Start listening to my other podcast, “What Would Sheila Say?” - Episode 1 - You Are In Control   💥 FREE RESOURCES Grab these “Simple Scripts for Better Boundaries” and take back your time, talent, and energy! Scripts for Professionals | Scripts for Business Owners Build a healthier lifestyle and add more joy in your life in this Masterclass! Free Stuff, Fun Stuff, Links & More: https://sheilawilkinson.com/links   🌟 LOW-COST RESOURCES Start fixing your top 3 most frustrating situations TODAY in this Managing Expectations Mini-Course! ($19)  Start getting Boundaries *and* Balance in this Workshop ($29)   💌 CONNECT WITH ME Tag me, follow me, and DM me with your thoughts and questions: Instagram @sheilamwilkinson and Facebook @lawyercoachsheila   🎧 RATE THIS PODCAST/EPISODE  Rate this podcast / episode on Apple Podcasts Not on Apple Podcasts? No worries! Rate and Review on our site and make sure to leave a question for a future...
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    24 mins
  • The Scariest Decision a Lawyer Can Make Outside the Courtroom: Should I Stay or Should I Go? {Ep. 10}

    The Scariest Decision a Lawyer Can Make Outside the Courtroom: Should I Stay or Should I Go? {Ep. 10}
    Dec 12 2023
    In this insightful episode, we delve into the crucial decision-making process lawyers face when transitioning careers. Drawing from real stories and expert advice, I bring you a strategic guide to not just survive but to thrive beyond the confines of traditional legal paths. As a seasoned legal professional, I share invaluable insights to help you navigate uncertainties and make intentional career choices. Key Takeaways: Strategic Transition: Learn the art of transitioning strategically, avoiding the pitfalls of hasty career moves. Financial Freedom: Challenge the belief that high earnings are exclusive to traditional legal roles and explore a life of abundance beyond litigation. Purposeful Decision-Making: Uncover the key questions to align your career with your passions and values. Overcoming Burnout: Strategies to overcome burnout, especially in the face of pandemic challenges. Legal Odyssey Stories: Explore real-life stories, like my Client’s pendulum swing we discussed in Episode 5, illustrating the journey from toxic work environments to fulfilling careers.   Compelling Quotes: "You can make 6 figures and have a wonderful life, if you want it, not litigating. The skills you have now will take you places you can’t even imagine." "We are all born holding one bucket of shit. Our job in life is to not carry two." - Professor Bill Quigley, Loyola New Orleans Law  "Let’s make those answers match what matters to you so your future can be the one you imagine and daydream about."   >>>  Are you looking for clarity and guidance about the next steps in your legal career?  Ready to get away from the toxic focus on the quantity of work in billables, and instead, focus on the quality of your work?  Want to focus on what matters and have a life outside the office?  If any of these were a whole body hell yes, then you’re in the right place!  Hi! I’m Sheila Wilkinson, your host, and I’m an attorney, just like you.  I built a multi-million dollar law firm from scratch and when the managing partner refused to uphold his end of the bargain, I walked away from it all. Now, I live on two continents and help other lawyers live their best lives, too!  I still practice law, and I’m also a coach, consultant, and educator. I’ve spoken on plenty of stages across the globe - CLEs included!  My mission is to help you figure out exactly who you really are and what you really want, underneath and in spite of all those shoulda, woulda, couldas, because mark my words: what you want is within reach, and it’s a lot closer than you think!  So, grab something to take notes with and let’s dig deep about what you really want your joyful and thriving lawyer life to look like!  And when you’re ready, below are some free and low-cost resources you can start creating your joyful and thriving life today. But here’s a secret: the magic really happens when we work together, so schedule a call with me and let’s chat. It’s not a sales call, and I won’t try to sell you anything - PROMISE. I want to help you get to know yourself better and support you in your dreams! 🥰 RESOURCES FROM THE SHOW  Schedule a call with Sheila to chat about YOUR Joyful & Thriving™ Lawyer Life! Let’s Connect via Email: sheilawilkinson.com/connect  Baby Steps - Get Weekly Strategies for how to thrive in your world - for free! ABA Article: COVID’s Unexpected Gift   💥 FREE RESOURCES Grab these “Simple Scripts for Better Boundaries” and take back your time, talent, and energy! Scripts for Professionals | Scripts for Business Owners Build a healthier lifestyle and add more joy in your life in this Masterclass! Free Stuff, Fun Stuff, Links & More: https://sheilawilkinson.com/links   🌟 LOW-COST RESOURCES Start fixing your top 3 most frustrating situations TODAY in this Managing Expectations Mini-Course! ($19)  Start getting Boundaries *and* Balance in this Workshop ($29)   💌 CONNECT WITH ME Tag me, follow me, and DM me with your thoughts and questions: Instagram @sheilamwilkinson and Facebook @lawyercoachsheila   🎧 RATE THIS PODCAST/EPISODE  Rate this podcast / episode on Apple Podcasts Not on Apple Podcasts? No worries! Rate and Review on our site and make sure to leave a question for a future episode! If you're listening on Spotify, go back to the main profile page on our Podcast and rate us there!  
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    11 mins
  • Sunk Cost Fallacies: The Top 10 Fears that Keep Lawyers Stuck (and p.s. - you're not a failure) {Ep. 09}

    Sunk Cost Fallacies: The Top 10 Fears that Keep Lawyers Stuck (and p.s. - you're not a failure) {Ep. 09}
    Dec 12 2023
    Ever felt stuck in a movie or concert you regretted, but you endured it because you paid for the ticket? We're diving deep into a similar phenomenon that might be holding you back in life – the Sunk Cost Fallacy aka the silent career killer!  If you’ve been holding onto a legal career just because you've invested time, energy, and money, then stay tuned for a mind-shift journey. Let's unravel the Sunk Cost Fallacy together and discover why it might be keeping you from your true calling. Don't miss this eye-opening episode where we’ll uncover the emotional ties that keep you trapped and help you start to pave the way to a future that aligns with you. In the journey of personal and professional growth, understanding and overcoming the Sunk Cost Fallacy can be a game-changer. As a seasoned guide in the legal field, I believe shedding light on this emotional barrier is crucial for anyone looking to break free from the chains of unfulfilling paths. Here are five key takeaways from this episode: Recognizing the Fallacy: Understand what the Sunk Cost Fallacy is and how it might be subtly influencing your decisions, keeping you tethered to a path that no longer serves you. Learning from Experience: Shift your perspective from viewing past investments as losses to valuable lessons. Discover how every moment contributes to your growth and understanding. Navigating Emotional Barriers: Acknowledge the emotional aspect that often keeps professionals stuck, even when they recognize the fallacy intellectually. Learn strategies to reconnect your rational and emotional selves. Facing Fears Head-On: Explore the fears that commonly plague legal professionals contemplating a change, from concerns about judgment to the fear of losing the familiar. Gain insights into managing and overcoming these fears. Empowering Decision-Making: Realize that making a change is not synonymous with failure. Empower yourself to make decisions aligned with your true aspirations, and embrace the uncertainty of what lies ahead.   Compelling Quotes from the Episode: “Rather than LEARN something from the experience, they focus on the potential LOSS of changing directions or their mind.” “It’s the fears that keep us back. It’s the fears that keep us stuck. You’re not a failure.” “Start looking for the sunk cost fallacies in your life, in your thoughts, and start to shift your focus towards the what ifs that could go RIGHT - you’re not alone. You are not a failure, and you are not stuck.”   >>>  Are you looking for clarity and guidance about the next steps in your legal career?  Ready to get away from the toxic focus on the quantity of work in billables, and instead, focus on the quality of your work?  Want to focus on what matters and have a life outside the office?  If any of these were a whole body hell yes, then you’re in the right place!  Hi! I’m Sheila Wilkinson, your host, and I’m an attorney, just like you.  I built a multi-million dollar law firm from scratch and when the managing partner refused to uphold his end of the bargain, I walked away from it all. Now, I live on two continents and help other lawyers live their best lives, too!  I still practice law, and I’m also a coach, consultant, and educator. I’ve spoken on plenty of stages across the globe - CLEs included!  My mission is to help you figure out exactly who you really are and what you really want, underneath and in spite of all those shoulda, woulda, couldas, because mark my words: what you want is within reach, and it’s a lot closer than you think!  So, grab something to take notes with and let’s dig deep about what you really want your joyful and thriving lawyer life to look like!  And when you’re ready, below are some free and low-cost resources you can start creating your joyful and thriving life today. But here’s a secret: the magic really happens when we work together, so schedule a call with me and let’s chat. It’s not a sales call, and I won’t try to sell you anything - PROMISE. I want to help you get to know yourself better and support you in your dreams!   🥰 RESOURCES FROM THE SHOW  Schedule a call with Sheila to chat about YOUR Joyful & Thriving™ Lawyer Life! Let’s Connect via Email: sheilawilkinson.com/connect  Baby Steps - Get Weekly Strategies for how to thrive in your world - for free! ABA Article: COVID’s Unexpected Gift   💥 FREE RESOURCES Grab these “Simple Scripts for Better Boundaries” and take back your time, talent, and energy! Scripts for Professionals | Scripts for Business Owners Build a healthier lifestyle and add more joy in your life in this Masterclass! Free Stuff, Fun Stuff, Links & More: https://sheilawilkinson.com/links   🌟 LOW-COST RESOURCES Start fixing your top 3 most frustrating situations TODAY in this Managing Expectations Mini-Course! ($19)  Start getting Boundaries *and* Balance in this Workshop ($29)   💌 CONNECT WITH ME Tag me, follow me, and DM me...
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    17 mins
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