"Are you who the person you are looking for is looking for?" - Andy Stanley
Single? Looking for the "right person"? Thinking that if you met the "right person" everything would turn out "right"? Think again.
In The New Rules for Love, Sex, and Dating, Andy Stanley explores the challenges, assumptions, and land mines associated with dating in the 21st century. Best of all, he offers the most practical and uncensored advice you will ever hear on this topic. Not for the faint of heart, The New Rules for Love, Sex, and Dating challenges single Christ followers to step up and set a new standard for this generation!
"If you don't want a marriage like the majority of marriages," says Stanley, "Then stop dating like the majority of daters!"
Part One: "The Right Person Myth" - 1 Corinthians 13:4-5
Part Two: "Gentleman's Club" - 1 Peter 3:7
Part Three: "Designer Sex" - 1 Corinthians 6:18
Part Four: "If I Were You" - Proverbs 14:8
©2015 Zondervan (P)2015 Zondervan
I digged into the first few chapters of this book and was amazed it was written by a pastor. The introduction and first chapter made no reference to Christ.
I've never read such a book which I felt so angered by. It's misleading and in many ways, just wrong.
Don't buy this book.
"No-Nonsense Honesty, with a True Biblical Wisdom!"
I really appreciated Andy's honesty and his assessment of the different mindsets of men and women and how culture and the world can lead us astray. This book taught me to examine myself and my patterns of behavior and motivated me to exchange bad choices for biblical ones, as it pertains to relationships. I highly recommend this book!
"I wish Andy himself would have narrated the book."
But, Stu did a great job. The book was wonderful and full of great info. It really made me think. Even if u don't think u can commit to the one year plan, it's an amazing learning tool. As a mom, it also gave me some great advice to pass on. Things I wish I was told, and things I wish someone would have told the boys I had dated. And if u don't like it, as Andy wrote himself, there's always ebay lol.
"Every single person should read!"
awesome book will read over again
this is a must for anyone who is single newly single or going through a divorce and is interested in entering the dating arena this all makes sense we need to get to know who we are and what we need to change in our lives before we get into a new relationship and it's all based on what the Lord wants for us and I'm sure this can't get any better than that
"Uninteresting - not what I expected"
Struggled to keep listening. Narrator's voice a bit irritating. sorry to say but I'd prefer to give book back for a credit. please.
"Finally validation of what I believe!"
In my past relationships I felt separated from God because of sexual immorality. My heart has been destroyed by the self inflicted pain of the dysfunctional relationship. This book solidifies my values and gives me a biblical basis for the conflict and struggles I have suffered from past relationships. Moving forward I can set and maintain my own standards without threat of rejection or unacceptance I have no doubt that God is preparing the person I am looking for as He is preparing me for the person I am looking for. Thank you God and thank you Andy Stanley.
"update listen to this book three times now"
listen to this book three times and I am very pleased that I bought it I would recommend buying this book it will help you grow as a person in and out of a relationship
"Just what I was looking for!"
I loved this book! it's exactly what I was looking for. I need more of this!
"Great information however"
This book definitely puts things right into perspective and brings up things you would never think of. Highly worth it
As someone new to Christianity I was unsure about the area about sex and never fully understood the wait until marriage part. Andy did a great job explaining the reasoning of why you should wait without being condeming or making me feel awful. He sounded more of a concerned father who was giving his daughter advice about how to have a great intimate relationship. Be the person you want to date!! I also liked the narrator...he had a youthful pep to his voice!!
"Made me question some of my views. Inspiring read!"
Narrator was good. Book content was encouraging and challenging. I am encouraged to become a better woman. I didn't expect to enjoy this book but I am glad that I finished it. Looking forward to my year of change!
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