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  • The Truth About Finding Unconditional Love & Fulfilling Relationships
  • By: Greg Baer
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  • Length: 7 hrs and 50 mins
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (29 ratings)
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Summary

"He rocked my foundation! Greg Baer touched me deeply. He's got the answer to finding happiness in life." (Tony Trupiano, Talk America)

Why do most of us search our entire lives for loving and happy relationships but rarely find them? What is the "secret something" that all relationships need in order to thrive? Dr. Greg Baer found the answers to these questions while working with thousands of individuals and couples. In Real Love, he shares his enlightening and practical blueprint for creating successful relationships and reveals the secret to finding and keeping what he calls "Real Love."

In Real Love, you'll discover:

  • The difference between Imitation Love and Real Love
  • How to eliminate conflicts with spouses, children, parents, friends, and colleagues
  • How to put an end to destructive "Getting" and "Protecting" behaviors
  • How Real Love can eliminate anger, resentment, and fear
  • The four steps to finding Real Love

With Real Love as your guide, you can begin to heal the wounds of your past and create rewarding and fulfilling relationships in every area of your life.

"I could not wait to turn each page. It was like stepping from the shadows into the sun! Dr. Baer has given us a monumental achievement in understanding love and relationships." (Metaphysical Reviews)

©2003 Penguin Publishing (P)2007 Greg Baer

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AMAZING

A truly transformational book. This book changes lives. I've read many books and this has to be one of the best books I have read.

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The best relationship book out there

This is easily the best relationship book out there. Highly recommended for anyone desiring love and to be loving

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Life changing book

Brilliant insights and many excellent real-life examples.

I have never thought about my and other people's behaviour from this angle... It resonated a lot.

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greatest lifestyle lessons. you really feel loved

powerfull message profound yet simply put across. with lots of real situations to demonstrate. well narrated calm consistently guided through each step to a greater awareness of acheiving a much more rewarding way of life

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Impactful

The principals in this book should be learned and applied by everyone. It is easier said than done but worth a try for sure!

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This book has changed my outlook on life and the way I function in my relationship with my partner, my children and others. It has been an absolute life changer, I know it sounds cheesy, but this has changed my life and relationships for the better, forever!

He doesn’t mess around about mentioning our personal responsibility, and the lies we consistently tell ourselves and others, but also helps us know how we can move passed that.

“Live with the pig and like it, live with the pig and hate it, or leave the pig!” (Leaving the pig carries its own consequences though and should not be taken lightly / be a last resort, but Greg will explain more about that as you listen / read the book.

I can’t recommend this book enough, and am going to listen to more of Greg Baer’s books now!

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Not sure this is real love

Although I like the message of showing more love in relation to other people I couldn’t help but feel a hidden agenda throughout the book.

By the end, that feeling had increased to a “cult-like” feeling. Little creepy.

I’ll walk away with an openness to some of the ideas, but won’t follow them blindly.

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If Ned Flanders wrote a book about love...

I'm not sure how many stars to give this book. The good is really very good but the bad is also really, really bad.

First the good: certainly there is a lot here about the source of conflict in relationships. What "real" (by which I think the author means unconditional) love is, and how to get it, and (more important I think) how to give it. The strategies and steps are clear and simple. The catch phrases are easy to remember (eg"getting and protecting behaviour"). I will personally be trying some of the strategies, and while I can't yet add to the already copious successful examples in the book, I have expectations that they will work.

Here's the bad: it is so sanctimonious. I imagine the author is very Ned Flanders like, and it's all very nice, wise, wholesome and perfect and all, I find it very annoying. Was it Churchill who said that someone with no vices will sure have some pretty annoying virtues? So yes... the annoyance is my problem but it may not be just me who experience this. While the author is keen not to judge, there are definitely "wise men" who can provide "real love" and the rest of us who struggle and fail and get into a lot of trouble in our pursuit of "imitation love". There's definitely a disapproval of use of drugs, and disavowal of sex outside marriage (you will never know if your partner's love is real love or imitation love if you have sex!). Then there was a case study about a man who was annoyed with his partner because he came home to an untidy house and no dinner even though they previously agreed that those were her responsibilities. I did roll my eyes at many of the case studies, and I couldn't go on after the last example.

But all in all, many people will probably find this book useful, and most people will probably not be as annoyed by the bible study tone of this book as I was....

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