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Mode One

Let the Women Know What You're REALLY Thinking

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Mode One

By: Alan Roger Currie
Narrated by: Alan Roger Currie
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About this listen

As a man, when you decide that you want to express your romantic or sexual desires, interests, and intentions to a woman, how do you go about communicating those desires and interests to her?

Do you communicate your desires and interests to women in a cautious, vague, ambiguous, or "beat around the bush" manner?

Do you avoid approaching women and avoid initiating conversations with women altogether?

Do you regularly cheat on your wife or girlfriend behind her back?

Are you currently filled with so much bitterness, misogyny, and resentment toward women that you have no desire whatsoever to even interact with them?

In the audiobook version of Mode One: Let the Women Know What You're Really Thinking, author and professional dating coach Alan Roger Currie describes and examines what he refers to as the "Four Modes of Verbal Communication".

Currie makes the strong argument in his audiobook that the most effective interpersonal communication style that a man can exhibit with a woman is MODE ONE behavior, which represents when a man expresses his romantic or sexual desires, interests, and intentions to a woman in a manner that is bold, highly self-assured, up front, specific, and straightforwardly honest.

Currie harshly criticizes the idea of men maintaining disingenuous platonic friendships with women (what Currie refers to as "FunClubbin"), and he also points out that many men and women tend to exhibit behavior that is very duplicitous, dishonest, disingenuous, misleading, and manipulative when interacting with members of the opposite sex in today's dating scene.

Currie invites his male listeners to take notes while listening to each and every chapter (preprinted notes are available at modeone.net/journal/).

Warning: Some chapters in the audiobook include explicit language.

©1998, 1999, 2006 Alan Roger Currie (P)2014 Alan Roger Currie
Communication & Social Skills Love, Dating & Attraction Personal Development Relationships Dating Romance

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Alan is a great story teller and delivers his message with humor and wit. He also gives much to think about and more importantly, to apply in real life.

Insightful

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Alan puts his way of looking at the Dr Robert Glovers "nice guy" in his own way and his own perspective which to me he has added to correctly with an honest, no messing solution. It is obvious. Be honest and ask for what you want. Mode one narrated by the author is well worth a listen. He does repeat himself to enforce parts you may have forgotten whilst you are listening to the whole audiobook. His teaching is invaluable for men in the 21st century and recovering nice guys...Solid. Would highly recommend.

Direct and Gutsy Solution for Nice Guys (mode2).

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Would you listen to Mode One again? Why?

yes, the book hits the nail on the head, and as a reader you understand and relate to what he is saying very easily. great advise too.

Who was your favorite character and why?

Jack was definitely my favorite character, not only is he frank, but he knows what he wants and always speaks his mind and is very confident of himself

What about Alan Roger Currie’s performance did you like?

He speaks slow enough, his pronunciation of words was eloquent and anybody irrespective of where you are from would understand what he is saying and still makes it interesting

Was there a moment in the book that particularly moved you?

when he talks about as a man you being angry is really not directed at your ex but at yourself for not being your true self in the first place

Any additional comments?

This audio book is worth listening too, though it's pretty long but it's worth every second of it and yea, when you're done, you'll have a lot of new resolutions

Alpha Male and Women

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An unfair advantage against other men who do not know what they are doing. You pay 20 bucks for an investment that will help you through your whole life, and probably save time , energy and prevent forming hatred towards women.Do i need to convince you anymore?

An unfair advantage...

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It's a great book, very helpful and definitely contains insightful material that will undoubtedly help a lot of guys.

HOWEVER

You're expected to keep a journal, draw tables, plot boxes and all kinds of other written homework - this is just tiresome and could be delivered via a printable download. As I listen to audiobooks in the car or out running I clearly wasn't going to do any of this, and probably never will.

But I am also quite self aware and as such know a lot of what he is saying is true. I have about an hour left, but I think this book is worth it, in spite of the above.

I recommend a listen, but expect to put pen to paper.

I don't listen to audiobooks to do homework

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