If you're carrying the mental load — planning, organizing, remembering everything — while your partner seems to do less and less, this episode names exactly why. Adam and Aston break down the over functioning under functioning dynamic and show you how to rebuild real partnership instead of silent resentment.

In this episode:

How the over functioning under functioning trap forms, and why it's perspective, not fact

Why these patterns trace back to childhood roles and the beliefs that keep them alive

The exercise Aston uses to reveal how much you're carrying that was never yours

How control disguised as helping makes your partner feel like an employee

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