What if the voice guiding your decisions, your relationships, and your sense of self was never truly yours?
In this episode, I sit down with April Martini - TEDx speaker, certified life coach, U.S. Army Veteran, and founder of The Blind Spot - for a deeply honest conversation about identity, healing, and the journey of becoming who you really are.
April shares her story of growing up in an environment shaped by trauma and survival, joining the Army, navigating deployment, motherhood, relationships, and the difficult process of confronting the beliefs she had carried for years.
Together, we explore how the experiences we have - and the voices we internalize along the way - can shape the way we see ourselves. April shares how therapy, self-reflection, and intentional healing helped her uncover what was truly hers versus what she had inherited from others.
This conversation is for anyone who has ever wondered: “Is this really who I am, or is this who I learned I needed to be?”
In this episode, we discuss:- How childhood experiences and survival patterns can shape identity
- April’s journey from the military to motherhood to rediscovering herself
- The impact of trauma, shame, and unexamined beliefs on relationships and self-worth
- The moment she realized she needed to break generational patterns for her son
- How healing helped her separate her own beliefs from the voices she had internalized
- What authenticity actually means — and why it starts with knowing your values
- Practical tools for gaining self-awareness, including journaling and values-based reflection
- How April helps others uncover their blind spots through coaching and leadership work
About April MartiniApril Martini is a TEDx speaker, certified life coach, U.S. Army Veteran, and soon-to-be published author. April helps women and leaders uncover the beliefs, patterns, and stories that may be holding them back. Through coaching and speaking, April helps people reconnect with their values and lead with greater authenticity.
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