What happens after you manifest your soulmate?

Claire sits down with Victoria Thain Gioia, co-founder and co-CEO of Perelel, entrepreneur, wife, and mother of four, for an honest conversation about finding your person—and then doing the work to build a life together.

Victoria shares how she met her husband, Greg, why traveling together early in their relationship gave her a gut feeling that they could handle life as a team, and what nearly thirteen years together have taught her about love, communication, conflict, ambition, and partnership.

They talk about building businesses while raising four children, the mental load of motherhood, working alongside your spouse, learning how to fight and come back together, and why maintaining romance requires intention when your lives are overflowing.

Because your soulmate isn't necessarily someone who checks every box. Sometimes the better question is: Who are you together?

Finding your person may be the manifestation. Choosing each other again and again is the relationship.

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Episode 3: Becoming the Person Your Person Wants to Meet

What if the reason you haven't met your soulmate yet has nothing to do with timing—and everything to do with becoming?

In this deeply personal episode, Claire Khodara shares the pivotal moments that transformed her life, from addiction and heartbreak to American Idol, self-discovery, and the realization that changed everything: you won't meet your person until you become the person your person wants to meet. Through stories of love lost, lessons learned, and the evolution of The List, Claire explores why boundaries matter, how loneliness can become your greatest teacher, and why clarity—not chasing—is the true path to lasting love.

If you've ever wondered why you keep attracting the wrong people, struggle to let go of relationships that no longer serve you, or feel like your person is taking too long to arrive, this episode will remind you that you're not waiting—you're becoming. Because the greatest love story begins with becoming your truest self.

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Why do we keep attracting the wrong people? Why does love sometimes feel so much harder than it should?

In this deeply personal episode, Claire Khodara shares the story that inspired The List—from the heartbreak of being rejected by Princeton to unexpectedly singing at the Vatican, navigating toxic relationships, and learning that the greatest love story begins with the relationship you have with yourself. Claire reveals why creating "the list" wasn't about manifesting the perfect partner, it was about gaining clarity, breaking painful patterns, and becoming the person she was always meant to be.

If you've ever struggled with rejection, sought validation from others, or wondered why you keep repeating the same relationship cycles, this episode is for you.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why clarity is the foundation of lasting love
• How rejection can redirect your life for the better
• The hidden patterns that keep you attracting the wrong relationships
• Why honesty with yourself is the key to transformation
• How becoming your authentic self naturally attracts deeper connection

Your soulmate isn't the prize for getting lucky. They're often the by-product of becoming who you were always meant to be. If this episode resonates with you, be sure to follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with someone who's ready to find themselves before finding love.

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