It's time. It's time to break spells, in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ. (And she just lost half her listeners. Kidding. Mostly.)

I have been putting this episode off for SO long, with so many fabulous, self-righteous excuses. But alas, I've been put in a corner, and it's time.

Before we drop in, we tie up some loose ends. I share what really happened when Cowboy (yes, that's what we're calling him) caught me choosing the ramp over the stairs, the coffee date where I cried off all my mascara for hours, and why that morning felt like it shattered a curse someone once spoke over my life: "Who else is going to hold space for all your trauma?" Rebuke, rebuke.

Then we go into the deep end. What black magic actually is (spoiler: it always starts with a clinging, a refusal to die, a refusal of God's will). Why "if it works, it's good" is a trap. Why not every impulse is holy, and why "follow your bliss" can lead straight to death. And why dark isn't always evil. Sometimes it's just the absence of light.

We also pause for a little journaling inquiry together, talk about why super empaths are about to stop playing defense and go on the offense, and revisit Cinderella as a woman under a spell who almost believed that was all she'd ever be.

You don't have to be afraid of the dark anymore, my love. You carry your own light now.

If this is your first episode: welcome home. This is a very brave one to start with, so congratulations.

CHAPTERS

0:00 Welcome, it's time
0:43 It's time to break spells (and why I kept avoiding this one)
2:16 Dark forces and dark as the absence of light
5:25 Please don't diagnose anyone while you listen
6:28 Loose ends: Cowboy, the ramp, and soul recognition
9:32 The coffee that broke a spell
13:19 "Who else would hold space for you?" A curse I didn't consent to
16:22 God places us in seasons + Satan's sandbox, revisited
19:15 What "counterfeit" really means
20:18 When my body wasn't tracking it, my mind was
23:28 Army crawling out of my intuitive career
26:22 An intro course in dark magic: a refusal of God's will
27:00 Gigi Young and spiritual science
28:06 My background: Kabbalah, Reiki, moon circles and an NDA (red flag)
30:23 Stage magic vs. real magic
33:49 The root of all black magic: clinging
36:40 Manifestation rituals and "if it works, it's good"
38:20 Not every impulse is holy
42:13 Just because you feel it doesn't mean it's good for you
44:39 Let's journal together (The Artist's Way)
46:43 You carry your own light now
47:53 Super empaths are about to go on the offense
49:13 The "light has already won" trap
51:52 Cinderella and the spells spoken over us as kids
54:16 Becoming a lighthouse after surviving darkness
56:37 Neurochemical spells, deliverance, and reclaiming your spark
58:50 Closing + how to stay connected

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

• Gigi Young (YouTube)
• The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron (Week 5: Recovering a Sense of Possibility)
• The Biology of Belief
• The Deep End podcast (Taylor Welch) on how God uses the enemy
• Previous episodes: It's Time to Move + It's Time to Unmask Psychopaths

STAY CONNECTED

If you're feeling like it's time... time to try a new recipe, time to get off social media, time to fall in love again, or even time to submit to God's timing, it probably is.

Email: info@jillianmelissaintuition.com

Until next time, I love you.

This episode includes personal discussion of trauma, past substance use, and spiritual warfare. Please take beautiful care of yourself while listening.

TAGS

breaking spells, spiritual warfare, dark magic explained, black magic, Christian spirituality, soul recognition, twin flame counterfeit, Satan's sandbox, super empath, empath podcast, deliverance, generational curses, limiting beliefs, new age to Jesus, Gigi Young, The Artist's Way, healing from narcissistic abuse, spiritual discernment, It's Time with Jillian Melissa, faith podcast

If you're DONE with the twin flame journey but don't know how to leave… if you've been waiting for him to change, to choose you, to finally show up the way you deserve… this episode is for you. Let it serve as your permission slip to move and move on.

Jillian Melissa shares her journey of breaking free from what she calls "Satan's sandbox"—the energetic traps and soul ties that kept her stuck in Austin for years. Recording during an ice storm with Bubbles lovingly interrupting, Jillian brings triumphant completion energy as she celebrates graduating from painful cycles.

You can't force yourself to be done, Jillian explains. But when your nervous system finally arrives at that point—when you're truly done—your counterpart will feel it instantly. Jillian breaks down exactly what happens when the divine feminine stops chasing. Most notably, the masculine can no longer run in peace.

You'll learn the difference between twin flame obsession (loud, urgent, yearning, chaotic) and true soul recognition (quieter but far more powerful, settling your life instead of exploding it). You'll hear why recognition doesn't come with explicit signs and proof but rather, it arrives with resonance, with a bodily knowing, and with alignment that doesn't trap you in longing.

This episode is about moving out of traps and moving beyond fantasy into a life of authenticity. It aims to remind you that after true recognition, your tolerance for misalignment completely disappears and that might mean, it's time to move.

✨ WHAT YOU'LL LEARN

Why you can't force detachment—and what it means when you're truly done
How the Divine Masculine feels it instantly when you stop chasing
The difference between twin flame traps and true soul recognition
How to move your energy and shift timelines without relocating
Why recognition settles your life instead of exploding it
What happens energetically when you stop leaking your power
How to tell if you're in "Satan's sandbox" or genuine alignment
Why your nervous system won't cooperate with misalignment after recognition
The specific energetic shift that makes the masculine unable to run in peace

CHAPTERS:

0:28 It's Time to Move - Breaking Free from Twin Flame Trap
5:45 Finally DONE - Graduation Energy & Leaving Soul Ties
10:18 Satan's Sandbox - How Twin Flame Connections Trap You
14:21 When the Divine Feminine Is DONE (Everything Changes)
17:17 Stop Calling Relapse "Reunion" - Twin Flame Truth
17:46 He Feels It INSTANTLY When You're Done Chasing
19:37 When Feminine Stops Chasing, Masculine Can't Run in Peace
25:21 Real Detachment vs Manipulation - The Critical Difference
1:02:13 Recognition Doesn't Explode Your Life, It Settles It
1:26:11 Is Twin Flame Template a Luciferic Trap?

CONNECT WITH JILLIAN
https://www.patreon.com/jillianmelissaintuition

In this deeply personal and spiritually grounded solo episode of It’s Time, Jillian Melissa explores one of the most misunderstood—and most avoided—spiritual practices: forgiveness.

This episode is not about bypassing pain, forcing reconciliation, or pretending you’re “over it.” Instead, Jillian walks listeners through a raw, embodied inquiry into what forgiveness actually is, what it is not, and why unforgiveness quietly hardens the heart and keeps us tethered to the past.

Drawing from lived experience, Christian theology, somatic wisdom, and teachings from Brad Hambrick’s work on forgiveness, Jillian reframes forgiveness as an internal act of light, not a relational obligation.

If you’ve ever withheld forgiveness to protect yourself…
If you’ve confused forgiveness with trust, reconciliation, or forgetting…
If you’ve felt stuck between boundaries and bitterness…

This episode is an invitation to choose light without abandoning yourself.

✨ What This Episode Covers
Why forgiveness is not pretending you’re unhurt
Why forgiving someone does not mean letting them off the hook
The difference between forgiveness and excusing behavior
How withholding forgiveness calcifies the heart
Why forgiveness is an internal process, not a relational contract
Forgiveness as a commitment to what you do with pain when it resurfaces
The spiritual cost of bitterness and resentment
Why boundaries and forgiveness can coexist
Forgiveness as “turning on the light” inside the wound
The link between forgiveness, embodiment, and alignment with God
Why self-forgiveness is often the hardest place to begin

🔍 Core Teaching: Five Things Forgiveness Is Not
Forgiveness is not pretending you’re not hurt
Forgiveness does not require silencing yourself or denying pain.

Forgiveness is not letting someone off the hook
It does not erase accountability or minimize harm.

Forgiveness is not making excuses for someone
Understanding someone’s wounds does not justify their behavior.

Forgiveness is not forgetting
Memory and discernment remain intact.

Forgiveness is not trust or reconciliation
You can forgive without restoring access or relationship.

🌿 A Note on Embodiment
Throughout the episode, Jillian emphasizes the importance of listening to the body—especially within spiritual communities that mistakenly equate holiness with neglect of physical needs.

The body is not an obstacle to God.
The body is a source of intelligence, discernment, and truth.

🔗 Connect with Jillian Melissa
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jillianmelissaintuition

🤍 Closing Invitation
If this episode stirred something in you—resistance, emotion, relief, or recognition—sit with it. Forgiveness is not rushed. It is practiced.

And if you’re not ready yet, that’s okay.
Awareness is the beginning.