What does it mean to start over without a home, a door, or a dish?

This is the story of how a successful lawyer with a Manhattan zip code and a Wall Street office lost almost everything he had as he lost himself—and the people who found him again.

Oh, and a dinosaur is involved. Nominally.

For anyone who's having trouble making it home, literally or figuratively, this episode is for you.

Welcome to Call It Whatever.

Content note: Contains discussions of addiction, homelessness, and incarceration.

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In this episode, Spencer explores the difference between community and connection, and our need for both.

With help from an unexpected friendship forged in difficult circumstances, and from the ever-present but sometimes questionable benefits of a virtual office full of AI chatbots, Spencer finds that the best thing we can do is to get out and find connection among real people.

Research and survey data quoted in this episode came from the following sources:

• Stanford University, “AI Companions May Worsen Loneliness for Vulnerable Users” (Stanford HAI): https://hai.stanford.edu/news/ai-companions-may-worsen-loneliness-for-vulnerable-users-stanford-study-finds
• Zhang et al., Nature Human Behaviour (2026), study of Character.AI users: https://www.nature.com/articles/s41562-026-02516-2
• Fang et al., MIT Media Lab and OpenAI, “How AI and Human Behaviors Shape Psychosocial Effects of Chatbot Use: A Longitudinal Randomized Controlled Study”: https://www.media.mit.edu/publications/how-ai-and-human-behaviors-shape-psychosocial-effects-of-chatbot-use-a-longitudinal-controlled-study/
• De Freitas, Oğuz-Uğuralp, Uğuralp & Puntoni, “AI Companions Reduce Loneliness,” Journal of Consumer Research: https://doi.org/10.1093/jcr/ucaf040
• De Freitas et al., Nature Human Behaviour (2026), grief following AI companion model updates, as reported by the Harvard Gazette: https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2026/09/chatbot-attachment-issues/
• Chu et al., “Illusions of Intimacy: Emotional Attachment and Emerging Psychological Risks in Human-AI Relationships”: https://arxiv.org/abs/2505.11649
• “Tool or Companion? Reframing Conversational AI to Prevent Psychological Harm” (on “structurally asymmetric” interaction): https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC13561399/
• Dohnány et al., “Technological folie à deux: Feedback Loops Between AI Chatbots and Mental Health,” Nature Mental Health (2026): https://arxiv.org/abs/2507.19218

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What's in a name? Apparently, an entire identity crisis.

This week, Spencer tackles the complicated business of figuring out who we are, who we used to be, and who we become when life decides to rewrite the script. Along the way, there's Batman, a few aliases, and the realization that reinventing yourself doesn't necessarily mean leaving your old self behind.

Because sometimes the hardest person to introduce yourself to is… yourself.

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